The performance of mother-in-law robbing children (how to tell whether grandma is robbing children)

The performance of the mother-in-law robbing the child may be as follows:

1. Excessive interference: Mother-in-law may excessively interfere with children's daily life, such as excessively participating in children's eating, sleeping and playing, and even forcibly arranging children's lives according to their own ideas regardless of their wishes and needs.

2. Frequent hugs: A mother-in-law may hug her child frequently, even if the child doesn't want to. This kind of behavior may make children feel uneasy and afraid.

3. Ignore parents: Mother-in-law may ignore the existence of parents, only pay attention to children, and even belittle or deny parents in front of children. This behavior may make children misunderstand and alienate their parents.

4. Overindulgence: Mother-in-law may overindulge her children and meet all their needs, even some unreasonable needs. This kind of behavior may make children become willful and selfish.

5. Grab the right to education: The mother-in-law may grab the child's right to education, disrespect the parents' educational methods and ideas, and force the education of the child in her own way. This kind of behavior may make children conflict and dislike their parents' education.

6. Create family conflicts: Mother-in-law may use children to create family conflicts, such as speaking ill of parents in front of children, or deliberately provoking conflicts between parents and children. This kind of behavior may make children feel troubled and painful.

These performances may indicate that the mother-in-law is robbing the child. If you find that your mother-in-law has these behaviors, you should communicate with her in time so that she can understand the adverse effects of doing so on her children. At the same time, you should respect her feelings and try to find a mutually acceptable solution.