QQ Space says: I don't need others to pity me? What do you mean? What is the mentality?

I have some difficulties in my work or life, but I don't want to accept help from others. I have a strong self-esteem, because in his eyes, the help of others is equivalent to trampling on his dignity. This kind of person is very competitive, wants to do everything by himself, and has a strong possessiveness of everything. But it is precisely because of this that one-track thinking is easy to walk into a dead end and get deeper and deeper.