What rules should new believers follow?

As a disciple who believes in Buddhism at home, no matter how devout you believe in Buddhism, you can't be divorced from society and people, from the work you are engaged in, that is, from your due responsibilities and obligations, including your family. Without these, your faith will be suspended in mid-air and there is no place to realize it. What is the correct attitude and method of studying Buddhism at home? I once said four words, that is, put faith into life, practice in the present, integrate Buddhism into the world, and integrate individuals into the public. These are the four main points and four formulas of practicing life Zen, and it is also the mentality that people who study Buddhism at home should have. Putting faith into life "putting faith into life" is easy to say and casual to say, but it is actually many times more difficult than chanting, meditation and kowtowing! How do you put your faith into your life, or how do you embody the Buddhist spirit in your life? This is hard work. The guiding ways of Buddhism are more and more diversified, and some of them are aimed at specific problems. If we don't pay attention to this point, it will be generalized, and by extension, there will be problems. Because there is always a certain time, environment and people as the starting point to talk about a problem in one way. For example, I said today that there is no need to set up a Buddhist temple in this vegetarian restaurant. It was said under certain circumstances. Can I use it in a temple? Can't! In the temple, the religious atmosphere must be strong, and you will feel it when you go. If there is no bodhisattva in the temple, you won't go. If there is no religious atmosphere in the temple, then its positioning is wrong. The spirit I talked about today can be used in the temple, but the specific operation cannot be done in the temple. So what I'm saying here is targeted and limited. The householders at home have families, relatives and jobs, which means that they all have their own social responsibilities and obligations. Studying Buddhism at home is to combine one's beliefs with one's responsibilities and obligations to the family and society, which is the key!