How to teach the children of the rich? Take millions of losses first!

A friend shared a true story with me the other day: the president of a company had a prince. The prince felt that his father's industry was a little low (not high enough) and he was unwilling to take over. Later, I lost millions, but I gave in to my father. A few years later, I started my own business and finally made my own company, which was impressive. What should we ordinary children do?

First, dare to lose money.

It's really poverty that limits my imagination. Let's talk about other people's educational methods first.

The president gave the prince 1 time 1 10,000 to start a "small business".

However, 1 time 1 million yuan is not a one-time payment. Every sum of money you need to spend in the process of starting a business must be applied to your father, from rent, water and electricity to hiring people.

Tell the reason for spending money, you can take out the money, but even with dad's financial support, because of lack of business experience, 654.38+0 million will soon be gone.

You know, ordinary people may not be able to save 1 10,000 in their lifetime. 1 testing water is 1 10,000, which really makes people sigh: the huge gap between people.

1 After the water test failed, the president gave the prince 2 million yuan. This time, the president only read the business plan and didn't pay attention to the specific details of the prince's entrepreneurship.

But how can you learn to run a business so easily? That business plan, in reality, hit a wall everywhere, and 2 million soon lost.

So after the prince was frustrated, at the request of his father, he honestly went to work in his own company, starting from the most basic level of the company.

A few years later, the prince came out to start a business again. Because of two failed ventures and the tempering of the family business, the business is booming now.

How's it going? Hearing this, do you think rich people really spend money on raising children?

When my friend talked about this, he told me with emotion: Without millions, you can't cultivate a powerful boss.

Second, the gap is in the pattern.

It is said that the economic base determines the superstructure. In my opinion, what is more terrible than the gap of money is the gap of ideas.

Aside from money, I can see from this way of education that people have completely different attitudes towards mistakes.

We ordinary people are afraid of making mistakes, because we lack resources, and we dare not make mistakes easily. Most people pursue foolproof and lack the courage to break through.

This is also the reason why many parents want their children to take an examination of civil servants or enter public institutions. The core factor is two words: stability!

Don't think about making big money, make sure you don't lose money first. This is the last word!

But for the rich, because they have enough strength, the "fault tolerance rate" has been greatly improved.

It is precisely because of learning from mistakes that it is even more unforgettable.

And when a person is not afraid of making mistakes, he can have greater courage to try all kinds of things and have more possibilities.

The more I am afraid of making mistakes, the more I can't break through myself, the more I can't break through myself, and the more I dare not try new things, so I fall into a strange circle.

Everyone likes to hide in their comfort zone, because it is the easiest way to live, so it is a big probability that the judge's child is still the judge's child, the thief's child or the thief.

The concept gap between people is even bigger than the gender gap! It's really too difficult to realize the leap of class!

Third, changing life depends on education.

In this way, is it true that the lower class will never turn over after the class is solidified?

The answer is no.

Although it seems that educational resources are a bit unfair, relying on education can achieve counterattack as much as possible.

Today we don't talk about school education, only about family education. In my opinion, there are several points that parents must help their children cultivate, which schools can't handle:

1. Strong self-discipline.

First of all, no matter what a person does, the core element is self-discipline.

Only those who can be self-disciplined can do things to the end and achieve one result after another.

People who rely on external forces all the year round can hardly achieve anything.

How to acquire the quality of self-discipline?

On the one hand, I think it is a demonstration of parents. If parents are not self-disciplined, don't expect children to be self-disciplined.

Working all day is "fishing" and "paddling", always thinking about taking advantage of the company, taking a rest every day is entertainment, never "charging" and exercising, so don't think that children will be self-disciplined in the future.

Therefore, it is very important for our parents to be themselves first if they want their children to be good.

Self-discipline is not just for children, but for parents themselves.

2. The courage to make mistakes.

Secondly, in addition to self-discipline, children should have the courage to make mistakes.

To tell the truth, we are all afraid of making mistakes since childhood. If you accidentally break the vase, you will inevitably be scolded, even if the parents are grumpy, we will fight directly.

Let children treat mistakes as a kind of learning, not a devastating blow.

As said in the news some time ago, if the parents of the boy who jumped off the building could take the child's mistake as an opportunity to move forward, they would not slap their son in the face in front of their classmates, which would lead to later tragedy.

Making mistakes in itself can't hurt children, but if parents overreact every time after their children make mistakes, they will stifle their courage to make mistakes.

3. Professional awareness.

Finally, I think it's necessary for children to be enterprising from an early age.

I have a friend. When the child is very young, he will take the child to meet friends from all walks of life and tell the child what this business is, what value it has and what income level it is in society.

In fact, this is the simplest vocational enlightenment education.

Most children, just like when I was a child, know nothing about their future and only learn.

Until the day you fill in your volunteer, you will decide your own destiny by turning over your notebook. This is actually a very terrible thing, not much better than gambling.

When it comes to career planning, there is often a misunderstanding that you want to change jobs after studying. In fact, career planning is not to teach people how to change jobs, but to teach people how to plan their own lives.

Even if parents are unable to make plans for their children, they can at least give them a lesson to learn and let them know how to make plans for their own lives.

When a person knows how to look at his life from a higher dimension, in fact, he has a higher pattern.

Rich people, rich people's training mode, take millions to cultivate children's business thinking; Ordinary people, as well as ordinary people's training methods, there are always some things we can do.

End of movement

There is no shortcut in this world. If you want to achieve a leap in class, you must have a higher pattern.

When we can't spend that much money, we use snacks more in education.

The investment in children will eventually be given back to yourself, not that children can support you. After all, if children are not well trained, they are likely to come back to gnaw at you in the future. This is the biggest tragedy.

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