Blind date n times, what did you get?

Blind date n times, I understand! When I meet someone I really like and can talk to, I sincerely hope that everyone can try their best to chase after them and show sincerity, and leave the rest to the other party to make a decision.

Don't be afraid to show your sincerity, especially for girls. Don't feel ashamed to pursue your own happiness in fall in price. Don't believe that online affection is just licking dogs, but affection can't be without a bottom line. If you like someone, you have done your best. If the other person is still indifferent, it's time for you to quit.

I like you, and I have worked hard for you, but you still can't accept me, so I have to think for myself.

1. Get to the point first:

Boys are superior to girls everywhere, and most of them despise you. They are realistic and will weigh the pros and cons. You have no advantage to make up for his shortcomings, and there is basically no chance!

The general situation determined by the objective environment is that the ordinary girls introduced are one or two points worse than their ordinary boys. Shortcomings depend on your choice, and you can find other ways to make up for each other's shortcomings.

Be sure to be clear about your rigid and flexible needs in mate selection, and suggest starting from the perspective of marriage.

2. Chat with people and treat people well. Don't you think a boy who can't find anything wrong must be perfect? Don't do it yet. Just because some people are educated at home doesn't mean they are interested in you.

Remember, blind date is not free love, and you must not fall in love with your brain. The only criterion for a blind date man to be interested in you is to explicitly ask you to confirm the relationship and take you to see your parents. If you just say that you like you, but the uncertain relationship is dragging you down, then you must have ulterior motives.

There is no need to take a very exclusive attitude towards blind date. Blind date is very suitable for people with busy life and work, and it is a good way to broaden the social circle of the opposite sex.

The advantage of the blind date screening mechanism is that it can quickly help you screen out some people whose family background and family background are not suitable. Many of the sweet relationships you admire are actually from blind dates. When your attitude towards blind date is positive and optimistic, blind date will also return you a good result.

It is very important to explain your requirements to your blind date introducer. Introducers are middlemen, but they also like to be lazy. You can't emphasize your requirements with them, they may casually perfunctory your blind date.

A blind date who is too different from his own requirements can't get along for a long time and waste the other person's time. It is better to accurately locate the person introduced to you by the introducer from the beginning.

Please refuse to fall into the prejudice of bad blind date. Don't listen to the plan of "don't pick people like this" told by the elders around you.

In any case, you can't' sell' yourself because of blind date. You should have a sense of ceremony and a correct attitude.

6. It is best to know all the hardware conditions clearly through the introducer in advance.

If the introducer is really unclear, it is best to ask the other person directly before meeting. Be careful to ask questions directly, don't be smart enough to try to figure it out, and don't be afraid of the other person's paranoia, because blind date is simple and clear, and any concealment is actually a delay for both parties.

Of course, for example, if the other person asks you for photos or talks more, don't be disturbed by others. Ask so many questions because they care about you. Asking nothing is just being suspicious.

7. Don't listen to anyone's criteria for choosing a spouse.

Most people just listen to the criteria for choosing a spouse. What they say is basically the minimum standard. Don't think that everything will be fine if you meet each other's minimum standards.

We should learn to judge each other's mate selection criteria according to their family background and their own abilities.

Generally speaking, the standard of mate selection for boys is that for girls in the same class, and that for girls is that for boys at the next higher level.

But if you think it's in place, most people will automatically lower their standards.

Feelings can be cultivated, as long as the other person does not really tolerate you. No, I have to let go.

Don't refuse to associate with people who are just right but not as perfect as you think. When you discover each other's Excellence, maybe fate will come.

8. Meeting for the first time is very important. In order to win a blind date, it is very important to investigate each other's preferences before meeting for the first time.

Remember, any boy who doesn't look for you after the first meeting is classified as your performance failed to meet his expectations. This expectation refers to a passing line, which does not meet the requirements of boys for girlfriends. The passing line here includes his requirements for his girlfriend's appearance, and it may also be whether he is interested in a certain type. So before meeting, you'd better determine the type of girl the other person likes and try to make the whole person's feelings develop in the direction that the other person is interested in.

9. Excluding external factors, whether the interaction between two people is pleasant. It often affects the result of your communication. After all, considering that marriage needs to get along for a lifetime, no matter how good-looking people are, they can't compare with the pleasure that the three views have always brought to life.

10. Those three sentences cannot be separated from "what my mother said". You can gently persuade him to spend his life with his mother.

1 1. The details of a person's blind date can help enhance personal charm, such as helping to pull up a chair, walking in front when opening the door, and protecting the girl's head when seeing her off.

12. Don't have too much hope for blind date, and don't start to doubt yourself after being rejected.

Now it's good that one out of ten blind date people can become one. Some treasures don't necessarily become one in a year. Many times, either you don't like each other or they don't like you or they don't like each other. Few people can meet and like each other.

13 Especially with the increasing age, the conditions of blind date introduced may not be bad, but there are fewer and fewer people. Many people are in a state of talking or not talking, so girls want blind date to care more about you and like you more. Let's give up this idea as soon as possible.

Maybe he will be interested in you and like you in the future, but at first, don't expect too much. After all, you have never experienced anything, but two strangers are suddenly pulled together!

14. If you think the other person is satisfied, don't consider it a success. Some people express satisfaction when they meet, and some even meet several times to express their affection for each other, and finally end up with an inappropriate sentence for no reason.

There are two reasons for the analysis:

First, the other person may be dating someone else at the same time as you are dating. He may be moved when he sees you, but if he meets something better or more suitable for him in the future, he will definitely say goodbye to you.

Second, I feel that boys now care more than far away. For example, they don't have the conditions (both economic conditions and time conditions) to fall in love, but they are in a hurry at home. In order to cope with the blind date at home, you really made him like the type and have emotional impulses. But after I calmed down, I thought about it carefully and realized that my conditions were limited, so I simply refused.

15. It's best to meet first on a blind date. In fact, this is the fastest way. There is no need to talk for half a month or a month before we meet. Sometimes we chat well online, but when we meet, we find that the other person is not our favorite type, and the rejected party will feel uncomfortable (not applicable to love rat and love rat types). So if you meet first or meet quickly, the burden in this area will be less!

16. Blind date is fast food. I have met several times, and I know about it. I will confirm the relationship. If a person has seen you many times and is not sure about your relationship for a month or two, then this person is mostly raising fish. You must quickly judge this possibility and cut the gordian knot, otherwise you will be dragged on by the other party for longer and longer and lose other opportunities.

17. Now that we have reached the stage of blind date, some conditions should be relaxed appropriately. For example, you used to like Gao Fushuai, but you wouldn't look for it unless you were in Gao Fushuai. Now you should only pay attention to it, and all other conditions should be lowered. For example, you can't give up being handsome. Then you should be prepared, he may have no money, or he may have any bad hobbies; For example, if you take "money" seriously, you have to accept that he may not be tall, average-looking or even ugly.

18 blind date is definitely a picture, but only a picture you need most, don't think about everything. Isn't a family that really has all the conditions a hot commodity? What conditions do you have to make people like you?

Pay more attention to these things after blind date.

1, after the first meeting, if the man replies to your WeChat for more than 10min, it means that the other person has no feelings, so don't bother yourself.

2, chatting well does not mean that you can take off the order, there must be a demon who only chats online.

3. In the face of parents' introduction, if the attitude is contradictory, in addition to being in a bad mood, you may miss many high-quality objects.

Most blind date objects are not as wonderful as netizens say. Many of them are busy with their careers or single because they are late. After all, I had a few bad experiences.

5. Be sure to look at the photos before you look at them. Photos with no changes in light and shadow on their faces have no reference value.

6. Don't try to understand a man's character, mentality and wealth by eating a meal.

7. When dating, don't drink or give each other food.

8. If a boy marries you with his eyes during a blind date, his friends are interested in you, even if you have only met him once.

9. If you are interested in the other person, you can try to increase the other person's affection for you by constantly moving hints. You can do the same action with the other person, or make eye contact with him, which can increase the probability of the other person's small movements.

10, clothes don't need to be too formal, whether it seems out of place with the surroundings and uncomfortable all over;

1 1, after meeting, if it is too boring, it means that the other party is not interested.

12, in the face of a boy who has nothing to say, don't hold the idea that maybe he will be a charming warm man after establishing a relationship.

13, don't just watch movies on the first date, you must focus on communication.

After the blind date, there are several performances of "good feelings" that you can compare.

1, after the blind date, the other party is willing to continue to contact you, and the attitude is not cold; At this point, the blind date market and the workplace are * * * connected, and both are straightforward. Once you find that the other party is not suitable for your own mind, you will generally not invest again. So after the blind date, as long as the other party thinks that there is no chance for two people, they either have a cold attitude or tell you directly. But constant contact and enthusiasm show that the first level has passed.

2. Expand other aspects; Once, two people were only superficial, and the content of the conversation basically revolved around regular chat, but the other party showed you something you had never seen before, such as fragile personality, childhood memories and past experiences; Or their own advantages in other aspects, such as ingenuity and equal cooking skills, so as to establish a deeper relationship and close the relationship between the two.

3. Test the impression; This is a kind of psychological behavior that is very interested in each other. Both are equally striking. Not only will you think about how to advance, but TA will also think about this issue, which will also test your impression of TA and the possibility of their success, and you will also be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Be curious about your opposite sex circle.

4. Understand the life circle; TA will take the initiative to lead you into your own life circle, share your life and work, and try to be close to your life, as well as your daily life, work and friends.

5. lower the standard; Both sides have a certain understanding of each other's situation, and their own conditions are usually not completely compatible. Compromise for you, which is not difficult to understand. People who are not interested in you will definitely stick to their own mate selection criteria. If TA has a good first impression on you after the blind date, they will unconsciously lower their mate selection criteria, especially the hard conditions such as height, appearance and job.

Both sides of a blind date must have a good attitude when meeting, eating and getting along. Enjoy the process and wish everyone success!