The performance of men entering the sluggish period

The performance of men entering the sluggish period

When a man enters a dull period, usually in a love relationship, two people will experience a passionate period first, and they will not get tired of each other, but after the passionate period, it is followed by a dull period. Let's share the performance of a man entering a dull period.

The performance of men entering the platform period is 1, and they no longer contact you frequently.

Lovers in love always want to contact each other all the time, and they can't wait to stick together 24 hours a day, no matter how long they stay together. Because in love, two people are full of hormones, and they really want to be with each other to enhance their feelings and get to know each other. But when the dull period comes, boys may not be so enthusiastic about girls, and they will not want to keep in touch with her and care about her. At this stage, boys generally don't contact girls, or even have a phone call every day, because the love period has passed, and boys want to spend their time and energy on their own affairs and create more happiness for themselves. At this time, he is used to the existence of his girlfriend, so he won't contact you frequently.

Get cold to you

In love, the change of boys' attitude is very obvious, because boys are rational. Compared with girls, boys are more decisive in handling things. When two people are in love, the boy's enthusiasm for you has decreased a lot. So at this time, he won't spend a lot of time on you, he will shift his energy to his career, so he will gradually be cold to you. And at this time, the boy knows your character better, and he also sees your shortcomings, so it is normal to be cold to you, because his love for you has decreased a lot.

Gradually lose enthusiasm

The most common thing between lovers is physical intimacy. Holding hands, hugging and kissing are all common ways. However, with the gradual deepening of two people's feelings, it has passed the period of passionate love and ushered in a dull period. At this time, boys will gradually lose their enthusiasm, and they don't even want to hug and kiss you, and they don't want to hold hands with you when shopping. This is also very common. Because boys like new things, when you spend enough time together and get to know you very well, the novelty disappears completely, so you gradually lose your enthusiasm.

It is possible to move on.

For some boys with distorted emotional concepts, when they reach the dull stage, it means that they have lost interest in you, because you are no longer fresh, he knows your personality and temper very well, and your appearance and figure are no longer attractive to him. At this time, he will pursue something that makes him feel fresh. Empathy is also common in the dull period. Many boys are impatient. They fall in love only because they want to fall in love, not because of marriage or other purposes. This kind of boy empathy is very likely to happen.

The performance of men entering the dull period is 2 1, and their enthusiasm is reduced but they will still care about you.

Even in the dull period, a man will give his other half care and care, which may be much less than that in the passionate period, but because he loves you, he will want to know what you did and ate today, and whether you are in a bad mood.

A man who doesn't love you really doesn't care if you live or die. Even if his mouth will reflect this concern, he will not put it into practice.

2. I always want to be quiet.

In love, once a man is tired of you, he always wants to be alone. He wants to go to the bedroom when you are in the living room. When you are in the bedroom, he wants to go to the living room by himself. He always wants to be alone and stay away from you. He won't fight with you, play jokes on you or flirt with you. This will never happen again.

Even simple chats are rare, and more people turn a blind eye to you. He may be thinking about your feelings.

I'm afraid you will be sad.

For a man who has you in his heart, entering a period of emotional dullness is definitely a matter of self-blame and a matter of lying.

Because men care about you in their hearts, they are afraid that you will be sad because of this reality. Naturally, he won't tell you his innermost feelings, and he will still try to stay the same and won't tell you anything different.

I don't want to tell you what's on my mind.

During the passionate love period, he may talk to you about anything that goes wrong with the other person, but during the dull love period, his boyfriend no longer has the idea of talking to you. Even if he said something to his friends or kept it in his heart, he wouldn't talk to you impulsively. Even the goodbye or reluctance you once kissed is gone now!

5. I don't like your chatter

In everyone's childhood, parents will nag in our ears, and we may feel bored, but that is the best embodiment of parents' love for us and it is great. When two lovers are together, their nagging about you is also a sign of love, which shows that the object cares about you very much and knows how to think of you. We should feel happy. For women.

If a woman, if a man is tired of you, he will be more and more tired of your nagging, and you are no longer so important to him. This kind of men and women should finally know how to let go and not let themselves get hurt.

In fact, the most obvious and important point is that you will find that men are becoming more and more silent in front of you, and there is a lack of topics between them. But once in front of other friends, his attitude remains the same, as always. He has become less and less talking to you about work, and the interpersonal relationship around him will not talk to you anymore. Even if you tease them sometimes, he always looks absent-minded. In a word, his attitude is very cold.

Once the love period has passed and entered the dull period, you will find that he seems to be deliberately reducing the chances of meeting you, and often uses various excuses to avoid meeting you. If you two are married or living together, he will often tell you to work overtime, or have fun with colleagues after work, but he just doesn't want to go home.

You may also find that he doesn't seem to care about you as much as before, he won't show their careful side, he won't be considerate at all, and he won't care about some small things in your life any more. You may even find that he sometimes seems to talk to other members of the opposite sex for hours. Sometimes the other person is not a third party. Maybe he just wants to talk to someone, but it's not you. When you find that the other party has the above situation, it means that the other party has entered a dull period, and you should also handle this relationship well.