Three speeches by outstanding parents' representatives

# Speech # Introduction The following are the speeches of three outstanding parents' representatives. Welcome to read the reference.

Speech by outstanding parents' representatives 1

Dear teachers and parents, hello:

First of all, I would like to thank the head teacher for providing us with this opportunity to get together and let us communicate on how to cultivate our children, which will be more conducive to their growth. Here, on behalf of all parents, please allow me to say "hard work" to the school leaders and teachers who have devoted their love, enthusiasm, sweat and wisdom to the growth of their children, and thank all the teachers for their hard work for their children. My child's name is Cao Xianzhi. Since I entered Class 4, Grade 3, Dongguan Primary School, I found that my children have changed, become happy, confident, self-motivated and love reading. This is the result of teachers' management and education. Here, I want to express two meanings first:

We should give our children the first sentence, "Give motivation but don't give pressure". From the day the children were born, they carried our infinite hope. Watching them grow up day by day, they will soon move towards a new starting point in life-coming to school to learn knowledge. As parents, we are eager for our children to live a happy life and to spread their ideal wings and fly freely. School is a platform for children to put their wings on, bearing the dreams and expectations of our parents. It can be said that students in the exam are "baking" their parents. As parents, at the critical moment when children go all out to study every day, most of our parents should take children as the center, actively cooperate with schools and teachers, do a good job in maintaining their children, cheer them up, work hard but don't press them, don't talk in front of them, don't let them be distracted, and worry about this and that, for fear that their children will not work hard or work hard, resulting in extreme tension and pressure. Trust our children and encourage them. They are an excellent new generation.

The second sentence, "Thank you, moved", should be given to school leaders and all teachers. Thanks to the hard work and dedication of school leaders and teachers, it is the truth that you tirelessly coach students and teach every student profound knowledge and be a man. In the past three years, you have not only given your children knowledge, but also a positive attitude towards life. Your child's first progress reflects your efforts. As a parent, I can't forget your careful comments on your children's exercise books, your ardent expectations on your children's growth records, and your tireless overtime work. Practice has proved that the school has done a very good job in students' academic performance and life, winning the confidence of our parents. "Come with a heart and go without a blade of grass" has always been the truest proof for you. Therefore, our parents are really grateful and moved.

Usually, some parents and friends often discuss children's education with me. I think we should cultivate good living habits before primary school. Good study habits should be cultivated in primary schools; Middle schools should cultivate good learning methods, so as to enter a virtuous circle, and teachers and parents will feel at ease when children grow up. A good habit can benefit children for life. Educator Ye Shengtao said: "What is education? In a word, it is to develop good habits. " . American writer Jack? Hodge said in the book "The Power of Habit": "Behavior becomes habit, habit forms character, and character determines fate". For children, good habits are the master of fate and the track of success. The competition of academic performance is actually the competition of study habits. Now, from the perspective of family, I will talk about my experience in cultivating children's good study habits in primary schools. I simply sum it up as "four concerns" and "three essentials". First of all, talk about these "four concerns":

First, pay attention to children's habit of attending classes. The most direct way for children to listen attentively is to contact the teacher and get a direct understanding of the situation from the teacher. I often ask my children what they learned in class today. What is the most interesting thing? Answered several questions. If the child can't answer anything, there must be something wrong with the child. In order to help children develop the good habit of attending classes, let them talk about which lesson of Chinese studies and what they are interested in after class. What's so difficult about math? Where is easy? Over time, it has promoted the habit of children's listening attentively.

The second is to pay attention to children's thinking habits. Confucius said, "Learning without thinking is useless". I think it is more important to ask a question than to solve it. If our child rarely raises his hand to answer questions or never asks questions, it means that he is lazy in thinking, dependent on teachers and classmates, or simply memorizing and imitating. In this case, the child is in a passive learning state. We should guide children to form the habit of thinking independently and being good at asking questions, so that children not only like asking questions, but also want to find answers to questions, which is very important for their future creative thinking and further study.

The third is to pay attention to children's reading habits. Suhomlinski, an educator in the former Soviet Union, said: "The way to make children smart is not to make up lessons or increase homework, but to read and read again." I have been paying attention to cultivating her reading habits since she was very young. From beautiful children's paintings to popular science books for children, there are books she reads everywhere, and even I read a book when I am squatting in the toilet. Sometimes she is so absorbed in reading that she can't hear a word clearly. In addition, teachers often read a short story after class and look up some information as homework to make children more interested in reading. Because of good reading habits, learning becomes easy, which also lays a good foundation for cultivating children's autonomous learning ability.

The fourth is to pay attention to children's homework habits. We should not only pay attention to the quality of children's homework, but also pay attention to the time when children's homework is completed. Many parents, including myself, feel this way. As long as they see their children sitting at their desks, they feel happy, no matter what they are doing. In fact, due to the different age and personality of children, the length of time to concentrate at a time is also different. Parents should proceed from reality and set the homework time according to the homework content. Don't let children get into the habit of muddling along and being inefficient.

Secondly, let's talk about the "three essentials" of cultivating children's good study habits:

First, the attitude should be firm. The formation of good habits is a difficult process, which needs perseverance, especially when children have developed some bad habits, and the firm attitude of parents is even more important. Mark Twain, a great American writer, once said an interesting sentence, which is very enlightening for correcting children's bad habits. He said, "Habit is habit. No one can throw it out of the window, only coax it downstairs, and only one layer at a time. "

Second, we should lead by example. Parents are watching TV themselves, but letting their children do their homework is not only easy to arouse children's resentment, but also affects their study.

Third, we should appreciate children and be good at discovering their bright spots. As the saying goes, "It is better to praise a child for a long time than to praise a child". Instead of letting children entangle the wrong things in endless criticism, it is better to praise them in time and applaud their every progress! I firmly believe that an excellent child is not scolded but praised.

In short, the formation of good study habits is not achieved overnight, but it is a lifelong thing for children to develop good study habits. Poverty inherits the wind! Children are always the hope of parents! May every child take off smoothly on the learning channel!

What I said above is just my personal understanding. If there is anything wrong, please criticize and correct me.

Finally, I wish all leaders, teachers and parents good health!

Thank you!

Speech by outstanding parents' representatives II

Dear teachers and parents,

Hello everyone! I am xxx's parents. First of all, I would like to thank Mr. xx for giving me such a good opportunity. I feel very honored to stand here and discuss children's growth education with you. I'm scared, too. I'm afraid because I lack confidence! ) Teachers' elegant manners, extraordinary temperament, simple life style and studious spirit have been imperceptibly influencing our children, enabling them to learn not only to read but also to be human. Small details in real life always emphasize that children should have love and filial piety.

For example, teachers will teach children to go home and show filial piety to their parents on March 8 and Thanksgiving Day. There is also a charity sale recently organized to raise money for disabled children. Teacher xx is indeed more diligent than other teachers in this respect. Let him develop good study and living habits here. Here, on behalf of the parents attending the meeting, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to our teachers for their hard education!

Every progress of my children is inseparable from the hard work of teachers. You won't get good grades without the strict requirements of the teacher. I am ashamed of my children's education. I really have no experience to talk about, and some experiences are not very successful. So I'm just talking about my immature ideas and practices here, with the aim of communicating with you, learning from each other's strengths and improving together. Let me talk about my superficial understanding of children's growth education.

For children, adults always want them to be what they want. Education-oriented families want their children to get full marks in all subjects. Parents who cultivate interest want their children to be flexible and have many ideas. In a well-behaved family, children should be polite, understand the overall situation and not take risks rashly. And so on, in short, the child is a hope model of parents, and it must be completely consistent with the ideal model. Of course, I am also one of these parents. I hope that children are sensible, caring, thoughtful and self-motivated. Children's learning consciousness is not high. I think what worries parents now is that children can never form a good habit of doing homework consciously after going home every day, which is almost a "common problem" shown by primary school children. That is to say, consciousness is not high. Let me talk about my views on children's consciousness:

I think consciousness is a quality of will. It means trying to do what you should do without being urged by others. I think consciousness plays a great role in children's growth and intellectual development.

Children's consciousness is manifested in all aspects of life and study: for example, finishing homework on time, consciously reviewing lessons, preparing learning tools by themselves, cleaning the room by themselves, washing clothes and even cooking by themselves, and so on. However, many children can't do this. They can never have enough fun. They don't like studying and working, which makes their parents feel very headache.

Let me talk about our children's learning consciousness first: because they work far away, they go out early and come back late every day, and children usually have little time to study. After school, the children go home to do their homework and review their lessons. When I got home, his homework had been basically finished. Maybe many parents will think it's nothing. Isn't that how everyone lives? Who doesn't go to work early and come back late every day?

Actually, it's still a little different. Everyone goes to work every day, yes, but there may be parents or grandparents at home, but we have no parents and no one to pick him up. He went home by himself after school. If he is hungry, he can buy something to eat first, or go home and eat some fruit biscuits or something. I can't cook until I get home, and I don't know how long I have to wait to eat.

Why do you say that? Because I basically get home around 6.40, which means I can cook without traffic jams. When I didn't go home, no one told him to do his homework or do anything else. Everything was arranged by him. According to the teacher's arrangement that day, what he should read, write and do. I want to do it myself. I don't depend on us, and I can't. When I get home, I will be busy with my work, washing vegetables and cooking. I think the children did a good job! )

Let's talk about life again: At present, most families only have one child, and the child's homework performance is the most concerned and sensitive topic for parents. "Learning" and "rewarding" excellent students have become a common means for many parents to encourage their children to learn. "Learning first, grades first" is their goal. As a result, parents arranged housework instead of their children. First, they care about their children and refuse to put the blame on them prematurely. Second, for fear of affecting learning, children disdain to do "chores". If the child gets a good grade, it will be a "sunny day" at home; Parents will lose their smiles if their children fail in the exam.

In fact, children are not born lazy, and diligence is similar to a good habit. The cultivation of diligent habits should start from an early age, so that children can know what they should do, and parents can't do it for them. But now many parents have arranged everything for their children. Parents and children have basically reached the understanding that children are only responsible for learning and everything else is arranged by parents. If children want to help adults do something, adults will say, "study hard." Learning well is better than anything else. " Over time, the child will become an outsider in his own affairs, because all things are taken care of by others for him, and he doesn't need to do it at all. The more thoughtful you take care of your children, the less responsible they are and the less they know how to take care of their own affairs.

Some children were urged by their parents to get up several times in the morning, but she still spoiled: "Sleep for a while and then sleep for a while." In our family, I told him very early: "going to school is your own business." I only told him what time it was every morning, and he arranged everything else. To tell the truth, I don't have time to wait for him to do it slowly, because I may have called him and left. It turns out that he handled it well, because he has never been late for five years and arrives at school early every day.

In real life, some parents don't let their children do what they can and don't give them the opportunity to exercise. Over time, children lose some abilities. Here I can proudly say: xx can already make tomato and egg soup in the summer vacation of grade three. He can not only cook, but also cook delicious food, which shows that children can surprise you as long as parents let go.

2. Establish a trust relationship with children: Children have an instinctive trust in their mothers, which is innate.

Mother's arms are warm and safe. As a mother, we must make this feeling last longer for our children. With this feeling, the child's heart will be stable and there will be a sense of dependence. My method is different from that of other parents. My method is to show weakness like a child: expose some unintelligent parts in front of the child, expose a little incompetence and weakness, and stop talking with the child about progress, study, progress, concentration, improvement of grades and so on. Let the children know that you also have shortcomings. You are also stupid, naughty and have a bad side. In this way, the child will think that telling him the truth is a friend, and the trust relationship with the child will be basically established.

Children are actually very simple! Why did I show weakness like a child? It seems that it started with my fourth grade area problem. Thinking that children are slowly entering senior grades, some things can be easier than before, so I did an experiment. It's just math homework. Every day I just check his writing problems, whether he is right or wrong. In this way, the teacher gave A- or B for several days in a row, and the child asked me how to check, but I didn't find so many mistakes! I pretended not to know. I checked it carefully!

Then I told him: I used to study in a poor area, and the geometry teacher gave me a headache and often talked to me. I really can't help you with these. Do your own problems carefully, don't expect your mother, and listen carefully in class! In this way, a few weeks later, the teacher took the exam. He got 100! Although I also took 100 before, I am very excited this time. According to him, none of the students who usually study well in the class did well in the exam. Through this incident, I understand that as long as you trust your children, they will not let you down! Nowadays, children like to play computer and PSP.

In this way, I also have an agreement with my children, that is, I can play the computer normally after I finish my homework on Friday and Saturday. I said before that the time for me to go home is about 6.40 (this is without traffic jam), and the time for my children to get home from school is about 5.00. No one was at home for nearly two hours, but the child kept our agreement and was conscious. I didn't say that they don't have parents at home to secretly surf the internet and play computer or games at this time. On Friday, children will also play computer for 2 hours after finishing their homework, unless there is a composition. )

3. I also want to talk about children's consciousness of serving the collective: it is really not hard for children to work as labor committees for several years! His grandmother said that this labor committee member had nothing to do, and he had no technical content. He leaves later than others every day and has to clean up! I'm exhausted! In fact, this labor Committee is really not so good. Today's children are all little emperors and have never done any work. But the cadres in this class usually work a lot, but they are still very tired! But it doesn't mean much He can't even attend the meeting of the Standing Committee of the class. He himself said that he was a working cadre. ) In the third grade, when children were young, they knew nothing. Many times, the duty work in the class is done by him alone, and the hard work is self-evident.

It seems that when I was in the fourth grade, when I heard the news of his re-election, my eyes immediately darkened. I felt that being a labor committee only made contributions to others in vain, and it also delayed my homework time, which was boring! After school, I am not as active as before, and it seems that I am going to dismiss my teacher. I will do his work and tell him that the working committee wants you to play a team role, not silently, but to lead everyone to do it happily. How can you be as powerful as everyone else? He said that sometimes students are asked to clean up, but students say that they have something to train, so they can't delay others' training! Look! What a kind child! ! Then he did his job and told him that a little man should have a hard-working dedication.

It is not good to be afraid of suffering and not giving; He also told him that every division of labor in the class can be successful if it is done well. We have always advocated "the most glorious work"! Moreover, as a labor committee member, I am no worse than other posts in cultivating organizational and interpersonal skills, but I also have special advantages in cultivating practical ability and hard work. After reading such a report, cultivating practical ability and hard-working spirit are important qualities for a person's academic and career success.

He also gave up a lot for the labor Committee, such as rest time, hobbies and so on. Once, the school wanted to hold an interest class in science and technology production, and the children liked it very much and actively signed up. The problem was discovered when they were in class, because the class time of the interest class was arranged after school every Tuesday, and he had to clean up after school, so the time was in conflict. Ask other students to help, others have other things to do. Finally, after careful consideration, he told me: Mom, I'd better do my job first! Finally, I gave up the interest class. In this way, the child has been insisting until now.

4. To educate children to develop in a balanced way, we should pay attention to the basic knowledge learning of all subjects and not be partial to them. I often hear Qian Wen's father say that when the exam comes, the children are practicing singing. I was very moved at that time, because Jiahao was also like this. Although there is infinite yearning for music, children always feel that their voices are not pleasant enough, and all music exercises after class are more than other subjects. )

5, usually study the combination of work and rest. After the children finish their homework and extracurricular learning tasks with good quality and quantity, they should leave some spare time for their children to cultivate their hobbies. Of course, parents should also actively cooperate and guide him to develop in a meaningful and healthy direction. For example, our children usually like to play Go in their spare time. After we found out, we enrolled him in a special children's Go class. After the guidance of the training class teacher, the child's chess level has been greatly improved, and the surrounding relatives and friends praised him, and the child's enthusiasm naturally improved. In this way, children's sentiment is cultivated, and at the same time, they relax themselves very well, and learn from nature with half the effort. Children should also pay attention to their own nutritional problems, ensure adequate sleep time and strengthen physical exercise.

6, usually communicate with teachers. Often ask the class teacher and the classroom teacher about the children's school situation, and give feedback to the teacher about the children's performance at home, so as to achieve the purpose of mutual understanding and cooperation with education.

Now I watch the children change day by day and grow constantly. As a parent, I see it in my eyes and enjoy it in my heart. I know that every progress he has made is inseparable from the teachers' earnest teaching, the selfless help of his classmates and the hard work of his parents. I have reason to believe that with our company and the scientific guidance of teachers, the children will grow up healthily and he will be our pride!

Here, I once again express my heartfelt thanks to the teachers who have worked hard for our children! I wish all teachers, parents and friends good health, smooth work and happy families! Thank you all.

Speech by outstanding parents' representatives III

Hello parents:

I am xxx's mother. Today, when Teacher X asked me to share my parenting experience with you at the parent-teacher meeting, I was a little scared, because I was not Xiu's child and I was not Xiu's parent. So first of all, I am very grateful to the school. The teacher has been smiling and then educating and caring. Secondly, I want to thank my children. It was her usual efforts that won me this opportunity today. Anyone who knows me knows that Xiao Ran has been growing up with his grandparents. I didn't take her with me until I was a sophomore this year. So it's not so much that Xiao Ran grew up as that I grew up with Xiao Ran, so it's really far from me to share my experience today. I just do something according to Xiao Ran's personality. Every child's characteristics are different, and what is suitable for Xiao Ran may not be suitable for every child, so I will say it today.

Let's talk about autonomous learning first, which is also a topic that all parents in the world are concerned about.

We all know that let children learn in happiness, and all this happiness requires children to learn independently, not forced, and no coercion will be happy. At present, self-study in Xiao Ran is very good. When I come home from school every day, the first thing is to do my homework and finish it by myself. I just need to check it after she finishes and signs my name. Don't think that laughter is like this from the beginning. I also made a transition from companionship. After all, children don't have so much self-discipline, and the formation of habits requires the efforts of parents. I should say that I spent the whole first grade laughing. After entering the second grade, I told you that you have grown up, and your homework needs to be done independently, because they seldom write homework, and usually read it by themselves, because parents must listen to it, so I told you that they should write down what they need to see. I agreed with Ran that if there are any problems in the process of homework, they should wait until after the homework, which will help children think.

The second is the efficiency of class. Class efficiency plays a vital role for a student, so grasping the class time of 40 minutes can make children's study easier. Now that the children are still young and don't attend classes, we can go home and tell them. Children grow up and go to junior high school and high school. Even if we have the ability and time to tutor them, they don't have time. Therefore, from now on, it is necessary to develop a good habit for children. I feel very good about the efficiency of smiling in class, and I know it through the teacher. Moreover, the formation of this habit does not mean that children are obedient. I did it with a smile at home. As we all know, the person that children admire most is the teacher. For children, teachers have the highest rights in the world. Most children have such a dream that they want to be teachers when they grow up, so why don't we satisfy their wishes now?

What about our family? Now we have all the equipment for teacher Ju's class, such as whiteboard, whiteboard pen, black, red and blue, pointer and earphone. Let Xiao Ran go home to be a little teacher. We are her students. The content of the lecture is what she learned that day. Of course, even if we tell her, we can't say we don't believe her. We check whether she listens carefully in class every night, but we are modest. That's what I said with a smile I said, what we learned at school is different from what you did. I discussed it with her and said, what do you think? You listen to the teacher carefully every day. When I get home, I will be my mother's teacher, help my mother talk about it, and smiled happily and agreed. From then on, we will have classes at home every night, and I will learn from a smiling teacher. Of course, I am definitely a qualified student. I will also answer questions positively, even if I am wrong sometimes, I will be positive. This has two purposes. First of all, let me test the efficiency of children's lectures. Secondly, I will teach them by example and show them what the class should be like. Every time after class, I will praise her and ask her if such a student teacher likes it. Needless to say, I will let her know what the class should be like. But now we don't insist on it every day, not laugh. I really don't have time. We still have to practice the piano and read books. She never stops talking about it every time. It is also because I think I have formed this habit now, at least for now.

The third is reading. In fact, each of us knows that reading can bring benefits to children, not only writing, analysis and understanding, but also lifelong benefits. As for the benefits of reading, we can say a series of famous sayings, such as reading thousands of books, taking Wan Li Road, reading thousands of books, writing like a god, and so on. Moreover, our second-grade school also attaches great importance to reading and recommends books every month. The school gives children such an atmosphere and hints to go to school. Then what parents bring to their children is also very important. As parents, the first thing to do is to be willing to give up, to give up time, to give up money, to give up time. In the early stage of habit formation, parents need to accompany them. Giving up money is to buy books for children, and giving up entertainment time. However, I have fixed reading time every day. For this reason, we never give up after practicing the piano every day. Ran Ran and I will each take a book and sit in what we call the home reading corner. This corner is actually very simple. I spread a mat on the floor and bought a low bookshelf next to it, so that she could get it at hand, instead of sitting straight on the desk and feeling very tired. There are books in every room in our house. I forced her to read at the end, but I just made her feel the existence of books. If she turns a blind eye, I'll read it to her at hand, whether she listens or not. Sometimes I even exaggerate my smile. Of course, she wondered why I laughed and sometimes asked me, so I watched the most interesting part. At the critical moment, I will stop and tell her that I am in trouble. Maybe next time.

I am willing to buy books for my children so that they can read them every day. I have bought about 300 books since the second grade. Some of these books have been read with a smile, some have not been read, and some have been read five times. Of course, just because she doesn't like these books now doesn't mean she won't like them in the future, so I don't think it's a waste, so I must let my child read books that attract her and let her have fun. When cultivating this interest in laughter, our family once did this. The three of us take turns reading a book, and each of us has to give it to the other person within the specified time. After all three of us finished reading, we held a family discussion on this book. Everyone talked about the main significance of this book and the gains from reading it, which was presided over by Ran Ran. Also, we made a simple evaluation form at home. The three of us will add a sign every time we finish reading a book and summarize it once a week. Losers must satisfy the wishes of those who have the smallest symbols. Of course, it must be me and her father who lose every time. In short, through this series of methods, we made smile fall in love with reading. When Smile fell in love with reading, I began to encourage her to start writing and keep a diary every day, no matter what she wrote.

Finally, communication with school teachers. We are children that two or even four people are taking care of, and the teacher is more than 40 children that one person has to take care of. It is inevitable that there will be some negligence, so we should strengthen our contact with the school. The communication between parents and teachers plays an important role in educating children. It is helpful for children to keep abreast of school trends, find problems and immediately prescribe the right medicine, so that some bad habits can be eliminated in the bud, which is conducive to the healthy growth of children. Actively participate in various activities organized by the school. I may not see obvious results when I participate in these activities, but my purpose is to treat everything with a smile.

Every child has his own advantages and disadvantages. I am not Xiu's parents or the best student, but we will work hard together, grow together and make progress together. Many parents present here will have their own unique parenting methods worth learning and learning from, and there are also many excellent students who are role models for learning with a smile. I hope schools and teachers can provide more opportunities for us to communicate and make progress together. Thank you!