Tell me about a five-year-old child who can read.

Let me talk about my example. My father is a middle school teacher. He didn't go to kindergarten and taught me to recite poems and read. When I was at school, I had more advantages and confidence than other children of my age. It was easy to learn from the beginning. Top of the class.

When my son was educated, I wanted him to have a happy childhood, so I didn't teach him to read. I was very tired in the first grade. He followed my husband and me to study science. Because no one taught him to read, he couldn't understand the requirements of the topic, so it was very difficult to do it. Therefore, my experience should be read as early as possible.

There is a high intellectual around me and a 5-year-old boy at home, very lively and lovely. He insists on reading picture books to his children every day to exercise their understanding ability and expand their knowledge. In addition, if you insist on outdoor activities for several hours every day, your child will get a little bronzed, haha, but it is particularly healthy. Before, I asked my children how smart they are, why not teach simple knowledge such as literacy, addition and subtraction to facilitate the connection between primary schools. My parents told me that their friend used to have a child who was very clever. He recited Tang poems from childhood and learned how to be the fastest. He knew thousands of Chinese characters before elementary school, and his grades were ok at first, but after the third and fourth grades, he kept falling, tired of learning, and his children couldn't keep up. He has never written a Chinese composition, and his mathematical thinking ability is poor. Parents began to look for teachers and experts to help their children solve difficulties, and the effect was good. Parents think that maybe asking children to count and recite Tang poems before is just a mechanical memory or a language action, and they don't understand what it is. Children's premature contact with too formal things is not conducive to the development of children's understanding and thinking ability. When I was a child, there was an old saying that a washed boy makes a good boy and a perfect girl. Cultivate children's language ability and thinking ability, do more outdoor activities, increase exercise, and be healthier. This is more important than learning something formal. Maybe if you teach Chinese in kindergarten for a few days, your children will learn Chinese in primary school in one day. Why waste such a good kindergarten time? This is how I train my children now, playing more, talking more and operating more. I will develop my brain and cultivate good habits before 10. I believe it will get better and better in the future.

On August 27th, I took my children to the kindergarten to register. The teacher asked me which interest class you would give them. Say that finish, also handed me an interest class form.

I have a look, and there are many categories, including: Montessori mathematics, logic dog, eloquence, science, painting and so on. Except for Montessori Mathematics, it is one month in 80 yuan, and the rest is 150 yuan.

To tell the truth, this price is really not expensive. But because I was raising the children alone, I told the teacher that we were not going to have sex, and the teacher gave me a look. This is different from what we taught you.

I know this is different. Take Montessori mathematics as an example. The teacher will teach you teaching AIDS, and we only pay lip service at most. But is it really necessary? Well, if there is no one to take care of the children at home, you can take these interest classes and extend your school time.

Also, the eloquence class that the teacher said will teach children to say jingles. Some children in the kindergarten middle class can't speak neatly, let alone read. Let him memorize jingles and read Looking Up to Heaven. Will children really be interested in such interest classes?

I find all these things incredible, let alone let kindergarten children learn to read. Let the children in kindergarten learn to read. Parents think that it is to lay the foundation for the future, and then the children will cry when they see the words, and they will be annoyed and cultivate the feeling of being tired of learning early. This is the "foundation" that parents give their children.

There are also many Chinese classes in the market under the brand of edutainment, but for kindergarten children, they are just hand games and cartoons, which are not as good as Altman and Miracle Girl.

Kindergarten children should not learn literacy, but daily etiquette and common sense of life, which can be learned by children as long as adults are a little more careful. The rest of the time, give him a good time, okay? The child's childhood has been so dedicated to anxious parents, why not even let go of the kindergarten stage!

These parents think that the earlier they know, the better they will be than other children, and to some extent, they will win the feeling of being at the starting line. Then at the beginning of primary school, compared with those who don't study, they accept familiar learning. At first, their weariness of learning is weak, and later, it is easy to build self-confidence and learn new knowledge!

Personally, I think there are advantages and disadvantages, and children should be taught in accordance with their aptitude.

I don't understand this behavior either. I have two daughters. My boss was admitted to the experimental class of key high schools this year. She didn't learn to read in kindergarten, but she scribbled with a pen just to let the children have a happy childhood. Now both children are not bad at school, and many early learners have not seen how well they study.

Children aged four or five are particularly curious. If parents don't teach, they will learn from all aspects. Taking this opportunity, parents can guide their children to learn correctly. You can't say that a child asks you what a word is. You haven't told them a word, they will teach you later! However, the child will continue to be curious about what he wants to know through what he has access to. Therefore, if a child has a strong interest in something, for example, parents will take appropriate measures to guide but not over-teach the child, and even ask the child to lay a good foundation for the child's enlightenment. All these require parents to guide their children with their heart. If they encounter that kind of thing: children are so elementary school, isn't kindergarten just for fun? I learned in advance. What did I learn in primary school? Parents of this concept are another matter!

Kindergarten is not necessarily good, and primary school courses are too fast. If you don't know kindergarten, you won't write, and the first grade will be very passive. Public kindergartens in Shenzhen don't teach a word at all, relying entirely on extracurricular remedial classes or parents. Knowing words, in the first grade, parents are relatively relaxed. If you don't study in advance, the first-grade courses will be very fast, and most parents will be exhausted. After all, my child is not someone else's child. Children's innocence is still there, their self-control ability is poor, their courses are progressing rapidly, and their learning speed can't keep up with the teacher's lecture speed. This is my own personal experience for reference.

Isn't the child curious? Before the child went to kindergarten, she pointed at the words and pretended to read them to me, so I began to teach her.

Knowing more words in kindergarten is good for going to primary school in the future, but don't teach children rigidly to prevent them from feeling tired of learning. I usually improve children's literacy in my life, and of course I will pay attention to the sensitive period of children's literacy (children will point to ask you how to pronounce words when they are curious)

First, it is really effective to insist on reading picture books. Children can master many words unconsciously.

Second, children will not be too disgusted with the use of literacy games. The first contact was a card board game issued by Zebra Experience Class. In the process of continuous play, children have mastered a lot of vocabulary. According to the correspondence between pictures and words, pictures and English, they are repeated and memorable, and children like them very much.

The learning effect in life is very good, I hope it will help you.

It is necessary to know some knowledge of Chinese Pinyin and numbers within 10! As for too much cognition and pen writing, if it is not formal, it is better not to touch it.