Is it a good thing or a bad thing to suffer? Tell me what losses you have suffered.

It is a good thing to suffer. I have suffered such a loss.

1, careless friend, cheated by "friend" 1000 yuan.

I have always been a particularly simple person. I feel that everyone in the world is as simple and kind as me, so I am not wary of others, and I am particularly kind to everyone around me. I always believe that feelings are mutual. As long as I am kind to others, others will be kind to myself. It is this simplicity and naivety that makes me miserable.

That was when I first went to college. The school is more than 0/000 kilometers away from home/kloc-and there are no acquaintances around. I am studying alone in a foreign land, and I feel particularly lonely. Later, through community activities, I met a senior who claimed to be a fellow villager with me, and suddenly felt that I had found something to rely on. It happens that my senior is also kind to me, and I regard him as my friend. The good times didn't last long. One day he borrowed money from me and said it was urgent. I lent him the living expenses without much thought, 1000 yuan.

He hasn't contacted me since he got my money. I didn't know I was cheated by him until I contacted him many times. He just approached me as a fellow villager to cheat me of my money. After eating this loss, I will no longer blindly trust others, especially when I suddenly borrow money from me. I will be particularly cautious.

If you don't study hard at ordinary times, the critical moment will affect your future.

My English performance has been particularly poor, and I haven't even passed CET-4 for four years. I always thought it didn't matter. I don't think it is necessary to speak English in China. As a result, after graduation, I found a job with good pay in many aspects. As a result, others let me pass CET-4, but I especially regret not passing CET-4, and deeply realize the importance of learning English.