The night before remarriage, my ex-wife came to pick up my son. I decided to call off the wedding. Is it reasonable?

My ex-wife and I divorced five years ago because of emotional discord. After the divorce, we lived separately, my son followed me, and my ex-wife gave me some alimony.

I took my son on a trip last year and met a girl. It looked good. Later, we left our contact information.

After dating for a year, she asked me if I would marry me. I told her, as you can see, I have a son that big. Do you mind being a stepmother?

She told me that she didn't mind, as long as we really love each other, it doesn't matter whether we get married or not. At that time, I was moved by her sincerity and thought I was a big man. It's not easy to raise children these years. After all, she is not a woman, and it will be more or less careless to take care of the children. If I find another stepmother for my child, maybe his life will be better and not as rough as when I brought him here.

Secondly, I thought to myself, I feel good about her. I think this girl is a person who can live and is suitable for marriage.

So I decided to marry this girl home. I want to remarry. I am an impatient person, I must do what I decide, and I never consider whether I have made any promises to others. So, as soon as I planned to marry her, I went to her city and made a dowry with her family. After all, it's her first time to get married, and the wedding will still be held.

The night before I remarried, my ex-wife came to our house to pick up my son. I didn't understand how she could pick up my son the night before I remarried!

I told her: I have custody of the child, and you are not qualified to take the child away. Unexpectedly, my ex-wife put the divorce papers in front of me with a smile.

It's fair by a law firm. It says that if the child is underage within ten years and I remarry, my ex-wife has the right to take the child away. Seeing this article, I was completely blinded. On the one hand, I am a child, on the other hand, I also have some people I like. How should I choose? After a night of struggle, I finally decided to cancel the wedding.