A person who can't solve the problem.

He is unsociable and considerate. Listen more. Even if you can't stand many words, listen to them. After listening, you can point out your different opinions one by one. If there is a spark, let's first look at how he treats it and what his starting point is (maybe you all have the same starting point in the end). At the same time, you should provoke him and make him talk to you more. Sometimes you can ask the other person's opinion with anything in your hand, such as this picture on your mobile phone or whether to drink cold water or warm water in the morning. Maybe you will say that these things will be verbose, but these are the bits and pieces of your life together. Asking him such a small question shows that you care about what he thinks. . . )

Actually, I used to do this with him a lot. Most of the time, he said he was there, and then when I was sad, he came back and said, I'm sorry, it's my fault. Then I said, I just want you to understand me, not apologize. Is it really that difficult? After such an argument, I was silent. Look at him or not at all. If you argue with him, an argument like this will only make things worse. When he is quiet, ask him if he has finished eating:

You made it clear what else I said, and the final apology was not what I wanted. If you want it, you will get it. Have you thought about what I want? Who is right and who is wrong in your argument? I was wrong. Tell me what is wrong, and I will accept it and correct it. You're right. Tell me your reasons. If you can convince me, then right or wrong is no longer important.

The key question is whether the two sides can understand each other. When both sides hold their own opinions, learn to listen.

Maybe in the end, you all know what the argument was at first.

Calm discussion, patience and tolerance are necessary. You can't argue impulsively because of a moment of anger.