Real examples of how emotional intelligence determines success

I used to have a younger brother. When he was in his first year of high school, several of his classmates went to the army to serve as soldiers (you should all know this, many students in the first and second years of high school were not very good at studies) All the children were arranged by their families to serve in the army, and after serving for two years, most of them returned to the local area and were assigned jobs). At that time, several of his classmates went to the army. Basically, when he was in his third year of high school, everyone returned to their hometown and started working. However, one classmate, in the army, completely changed his destiny because of one incident. . (The following things were told to me by one of my younger brothers. There is no way to verify the specific details, but I think the authenticity should not be said. His classmate is a bit different from ordinary people. Please be mentally prepared when reading below. Watch until the end. I believe you will also be convinced that an underage child can do such a thing, let's call him "Maverick" below).

While everyone was hanging out during the army training, a man who looked like a leader stopped Mavericks and said, little comrade, go to the service center over there (which is what we usually call the supermarket) and help me buy a bag. Smoke, go and come back quickly, I'm waiting for you here. He handed Mavericks 100 yuan.

(Be warned, it was such a simple thing. This little comrade seized this opportunity and immediately changed his destiny with an almost perfect solution. I told this story to my two children. Friends listened, one guessed that he bought a lighter for the leader, and the other guessed that he bought a cigarette for the leader. You can make your own estimation without reading the following.)

Comrade Maverick took the leader-looking man’s money, ran to the service club, and appeared in front of this man a few minutes later. (Here comes the key point) Mavericks appeared in front of the leader-looking man with two cigarettes in his hand, and there was 1,000 yuan under the two cigarettes. Mavericks said to this leader-looking person: "Hello, this is the money I asked you to buy cigarettes."

What the military and political administrations need is your high emotional intelligence and the ability to behave in a three-dimensional manner. It's not as simple as just saying it;

What the business world needs is your methods and strategies. Just working hard is useless;

But in general, seeing the trend clearly, Seizing the opportunity is the most important thing.

I think there are very few people who can do such a thing. Even if you do it, it will be very embarrassing if you don’t have a good excuse. An 18-year-old child can, when encountering such a thing, use his ability to recognize people and operate skillfully to turn an ordinary thing into an opportunity and seize it perfectly, without embarrassing the other party. At the same time, you can show your advantages that are different from ordinary people.