People are old. If your wife is gone, which people do you rely on actively?

People are getting old. If your wife is gone, who do you rely on actively?

—1— filial sons and daughters all feel that to carry on the family line is not to rely on their children blindly, but to maintain good family relations with their children so that they can live in happiness and harmony; My wife has left, and my children are the people I love most in the world. It's hard to give birth to them and raise them for half a life. Now that my children have already married, it's time to take up the obligation of supporting the elderly. But you don't have to rely on them for everything, just when you are in a hurry, they can come to you as soon as possible; That way, your life can be guaranteed. When you are old, there are all kinds of emergencies.

—2— Enthusiastic neighbors all feel that their neighborhood is harmonious, which is the objective fact; When I am old, I don't want to live with my children. I would rather live alone. It's nothing at ordinary times, and I have my own level of labor. It's really much warmer to rely on myself, but once something happens, the inconvenience will be reflected. It takes a long time to make a phone call to your children, and it takes a long time to get here. At this time, the efficacy of neighbors is reflected. The neighbor next door doesn't need to provide you with long-term pension services, but in times of crisis, there must always be someone who can inform your family, and the neighbor next door has always been no problem; Although it is a trivial matter, it can save people in a pinch. Be sure to have more next-door neighbors, get in touch well, and help each other when necessary.

—3— Familiar good friends No matter what age, we all need good friends, especially after we get old, our wife leaves, our children have families, and our daily life is lonely and boring. But if you have friends, you can talk together, talk from the heart, go shopping and play cards together. Originally, a person's life is boring, but with the old iron, there will be people who speak, and daily life will become colorful.

Many people are strong all their lives, and they don't want to rely on others at any time, but they are different when they are old. Their health and energy are not as good as before. You can do many things with your heart, but you can't. At this time, you should learn to actively help and prepare for your life. Relying on others is not weakness, but finding a better way out for yourself.