Is it very difficult for rural left-behind women after 1980s to report staying, continuing or choosing divorce?

As we all know, in recent years, with the continuous efforts of our country, both rural areas and cities have undergone earth-shaking changes, and in recent years, China's industrial economy has also been taking shape, but the rural economy is still relatively backward, so many migrant workers flock to cities to work after the end of the year.

Although the development of rural areas in recent years is really different from before, some rural areas are still relatively backward, and all aspects of urban construction are still not perfect, so many migrant workers know that there is no room for development and future in rural areas, so they can only choose to work in cities.

I don't know if you have noticed that many rural couples leave home to work after the Chinese New Year every year. At the railway station, we can see an endless stream of people. They know that they can't make money in the countryside, so they choose to work in the city, and at least they can have a stable income every month.

With the passage of time, the life pressure and economic pressure of every family are increasing. It is very difficult for children to go to school or to support the elderly at home. There may be many migrant workers who choose to work in the city and then take the elderly and children in the city, but in fact, most of them choose to work outside, while women stay at home to take care of the children and the elderly.

I saw a self-report of a left-behind woman after 80s on the Internet. You can continue to learn about it. In fact, there are many left-behind women in many rural areas, because although they really want to work in cities with their husbands, the children and the elderly at home are also a real problem, so they can only choose to stay in the countryside to take care of their families.

Xiaomei is a left-behind woman in the countryside. She said that her parents-in-law have several plots of land at home, and they can only rely on farming to maintain their daily basic expenses. The rest of the income is basically earned by men working outside the home, so Xiaomei is responsible for taking care of children and doing farm work at home every day. In fact, for many people, this is a free nanny.

In fact, many left-behind women do not want to stay in the countryside, but a realistic problem. They must be left-behind women. In fact, they think it is really difficult to stay behind, but they have to do so for their lives. Many left-behind women feel that this life is very uncomfortable, so there is a reason for choosing to divorce their husbands.

First, being separated from her husband all the year round affects her feelings.

As we all know, marriage is to combine two people to run a family together, but there are many rural families. For practical reasons, most men will choose to work in cities after marriage, hoping to change the living conditions at home, provide for the elderly and provide a good learning environment for their children in the future.

However, this will lead to a state of separation between rural couples all the year round. Although the left-behind women don't need to do much in it every day, she and her husband can't live together because they can't contact each other all the year round, which leads to more and more contradictions between them, which will eventually affect their feelings, so most couples are reluctant to separate, which is also the reason why many rural women are difficult to stay in the countryside.

Second, rural women need to do a lot of things every day.

With the progress and development of society, many people's ideas are also changing. In the past, many rural men did choose to work in cities, leaving women at home to take care of their families. But now many women's ideas have changed, and most women are unwilling to be left-behind women.

They prefer to work in the city, so that although the salary is not high, at least they can get a stable income. But if you stay in the countryside every day, it is actually very hard not only to support the elderly, but also to take care of the children and do farm work at home.

There may be many people who think that left-behind women in rural areas only need to take care of children and the elderly at home and do nothing. Life is easy, but it is not. As we all know, women are much weaker than men, but they can only do farm work at home, which is actually very tiring. This is also the reason why many rural women are unwilling to stay in the countryside.

Summary:

The two points mentioned above are the reasons why many left-behind women think it is difficult to stay in the countryside. Although they really only need to take care of their children at home every day, others also need someone to do farm work at home, which is not very easy. And being separated from her husband all the year round has a certain impact on her feelings. Under the correct leadership of our country, the countryside will develop well in the future, which may leave more opportunities for these couples.