My daughter is in high school and her grades are not satisfactory. She is under a lot of pressure. How am I supposed to talk to her?

When I was a freshman, my grades were also very poor, and my previous monthly exams were not so good. I'm in a hurry, and it's no use sticking to books every day, because the efficiency is too low and I can't find a learning method. Then my mother and I had a heart-to-heart talk. She first asked my classmates and teachers at school, and then began to talk about my study. I am in a lot of state, so I began to explore my own learning methods. Later, I found that all I learned were sea tactics, and the basic concepts were not good by family education. It's much better after finding a learning method.

If I am stressed, my mother always sits next to me to study (because I am an active boy, not very conscious), so I won't feel lonely. However, one thing I suggest is that when your daughter is studying, you'd better not surf the Internet or watch TV or make phone calls. It's easy to get distracted.

If your daughter is a more sober person. In the third year of senior high school, you only need to urge once in a while, because normal students will try their best under that kind of pressure as long as they don't give up.

Remember to give some encouragement when appropriate, and don't stare at the pepper water. Since childhood, I have only been beaten by my parents in kindergartens and primary schools. People grow up, have self-esteem, work and rest, and find a way to learn. Hard work is the last word. No matter how smart my senior high school class is, I have to learn 12, 1 and 2. Don't tell your daughter what to do if you fail the exam. You just want things at home, which is counterproductive ... In short, parents should always be the strongest backing for their children.

Wish your daughter success.