Should I notify my classmates of my marriage if I haven’t contacted them for a long time? Phone or WeChat?

I think that according to what is stated in the question, there is obviously a dilemma.

Since it is not good to notify or not to notify, then the only way to let the other party know is to make insinuations.

Then, decide whether to invite or not based on their wishes.

The specific method can be ridiculed in the circle of friends, saying, "I originally thought that my significant other was still in the belly of my mother-in-law (mother-in-law), but who knew that now I can prepare to get married."

Then, decide whether to invite based on the reaction of your circle of friends.

If you accept the call and care about your teasing, then you can invite such classmates.

If it is a classmate who turns a blind eye, is indifferent, and has no reaction, then there is no need to invite.

In this way, there won’t be much embarrassment even if we meet in the future.

Of course, it is better to invite by phone, which is more practical.

However, you should try to be tactful when inviting. Just say that you can come when you are free. If you are not free, you don’t have to follow the courtesy.

In this way, it is also convenient to invite people who do not want to come due to misunderstanding, so that the other party has room to refuse and achieve his own wishes.