The consequences of a wife looking down on her husband (if the wife always looks down on her husband)

It is often said that feelings are the foundation of marriage. In fact, in a marriage, what is more important than feelings is mutual recognition.

When one party cannot recognize the other, it is impossible to live together peacefully. In other words, only when two people recognize each other can they have sincere and true feelings.

Otherwise, you will always be picky and you will not like the other person no matter how you look at it horizontally or vertically.

As a saying goes, family harmony and husband-wife love depend on a wife’s adoration and admiration for her husband.

Generally speaking, wives always look down on their husbands. Either the wife is too strong and harsh, or the husband is too weak. To be honest, people's abilities vary. Two people together cannot just focus on each other's shortcomings. This is undoubtedly a very selfish behavior.

Such a marriage is often not happy, and has many unimaginable harms, which are very serious.

What will happen if a husband is always looked down upon by his wife? First, men will become increasingly inferior to themselves.

Regarding marriage, there is this six-character mantra: men rely on support, and women rely on coaxing.

If a man is often scolded, belittled, and denied by his wife at home, he will only seriously doubt himself over time and become cowardly, timid, inferior, etc.!

Especially if you have suffered a heavy blow in your life or career, if you face your wife's denial again at this time, it is very likely that you will never recover.

Men have strong self-esteem, are competitive, and especially want to save face.

Therefore, a smart woman will only praise her man instead of deliberately discouraging his enthusiasm. Only men who are praised will become more confident, sunny, strong and responsible. Second, women tend to betray their marriages.

Zhang Ailing once said: A woman will never fall in love with a man she thinks is pitiful. A woman's love for a man must always be a little adoring.

So in this case, women are particularly easy to change their minds.

A woman needs to be conquered. If she always looks down on her husband, she will only develop from disgust and contempt at the beginning to disgust and distance. She can't help but compare her husband to others outside.

You know, women are different from men. They pay more attention to their true feelings.

Because we are emotional animals, we mostly do things based on our feelings. Only when a man first gets the admiration of a woman can he make her devoted to you and never leave you. Third, it destroys the relationship between husband and wife.

As Lu Xun said: If you don’t explode in silence, you will die in silence.

When a man is forced by a woman to have no way out, he will fight back, accumulating too much resentment and grievance in his heart. After all, people's patience has its limits, and it suddenly breaks out at a special moment.

The most fearful thing about this kind of thing is that it will happen for the first time, like a flood that bursts its banks and can no longer be contained.

This led to frequent quarrels and even fights between the couple. The relationship between husband and wife, which they had worked hard for for many years, collapsed in an instant. They even turn against each other, fall in love and kill each other, and in the end both lose.

Men are very face-conscious, and women’s contempt is a direct humiliation for men.

Men are most likely to have extramarital affairs in this situation. It doesn’t matter whether the woman outside is the one he likes. What is important is that the woman outside can recognize his value. Fourth, it affects children’s outlook and personality.

Don’t underestimate the influence of the native family on a child. Every detail and trivial matter directly determines the child’s outlook and personality.

In this kind of family where "yin is strong and yang is weak", the wife's contempt will directly affect the husband's status in the eyes of the children. As a result, boys become as weak and inferior as their fathers, and girls become as strong and selfish as their mothers.

Don’t think that it’s just an adult’s business. Everything adults do will directly affect children.

Every child’s outlook on life is almost always formed in his or her family of origin.

The wife's attitude towards her husband also determines the child's attitude towards their father.

Only if a husband and wife are loving and have a correct outlook on life, can they cultivate a filial and sunny child.

In a marriage, if the wife always looks down on her husband, she will not be able to escape the above four consequences in the end.

Let’s talk about men first. In the beginning, the wife must not be like this. The only possibility is that in the later days, she forgets to establish her own image and highlight her own value.

This is how it is. If you want to be recognized by someone, you must first have the value of being recognized.

Or in many small matters, the decision-making is not comprehensive and far-reaching enough, causing women to secretly shake their heads behind their backs time and time again, and slowly begin to feel disappointed.

This has nothing to do with whether you can make money. Making money is also part of your ability, but it is more reflected in small things.

Not when they first got together, two people had a blind attraction because of the novelty. Just like there is a saying: As time goes by, you will find that a man's appearance is not important. What is important is that he has wisdom in his head and responsibility in his heart!

Then there is women. There is no comparison between people. No one is perfect, and no one is good at anything.

We cannot always try to control someone. Everyone has their own thoughts and emotions. This is simply impossible.

Thomas Mann said: Don’t be angry because others cannot be what we want, because it is difficult for us to be what we want.

You have to learn to recognize a person’s strengths and values ??instead of always finding fault with his shortcomings. Only in this way can you truly make a successful marriage!

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