Your friends usually don’t come to you, but come to you to borrow money. What is your experience?

Everyone has difficulties. Borrow and repay. It is not difficult to borrow again. Honesty and trustworthiness are the most important things. As long as you are good to me, your business is my business. As long as you are willing to be with me. Bet, I will definitely let you win. A true friend is to help each other, not in contact with each other at ordinary times, and is there when something happens; a true friend is an umbrella in the rain, if you don't protect him from the wind and rain, who will hold you above his head. Helping friends, rescuing people is like putting out fires, looking for you when in trouble, and thinking of you when I'm short of money. That's because you are not treated as an outsider, not a relative, but better than a relative.

There are many examples of people being saved by friends and being harmed by friends. The rescued people are full of joy, the victimized people are sad and cry; the rescued people are ungrateful, and the victimized people sigh. It is easy to borrow money but hard to get money. Former friends have become enemies, and there are many friends who have not kept in touch with each other for a long time. For such selfish, ungrateful people, they can only admit that they are unlucky and break up their friendship with each other.

Only by treating each other sincerely and being honest and trustworthy can we go a long way. Only by understanding each other and helping each other can we get to the end. Friends usually don't come to you, but come to you to borrow money, which means that you are living a better life than they are. If you have the ability, just help if you can. If he knew you had no spare money, he wouldn't go to you. A true friend wouldn't go to you to borrow money unless absolutely necessary. Now that you have lent it, don’t think about asking for it again. Just let it be known when you pay it back. People have their strengths, and money has its uses. Money is earned by people, and people have everything. What’s more, people’s hearts are made of flesh. Compare your heart to your heart. The days ahead are long, go ahead and cherish them!

A true close friend, one who gets along well with each other regardless of who the other is, and has a relatively good friendship, is the one who has not been in contact for a long time. If he has any difficulties, I think I will definitely help him.

If it is some fair-weather friends, unreliable friends, infrequent contact, and usually never take me seriously, then you can only think twice before making a move.

To be honest, I encountered this situation two days ago. There is a salesperson from the wholesale department who has known me for more than a year. In fact, our relationship is just business and we have no friendship at all. We don’t keep in touch with each other, and we don’t add WeChat messages to each other. Just a few days ago, he suddenly added me on WeChat. He added WeChat in the morning and sent me a message in the afternoon, asking me to transfer some money to him. He wanted to use it urgently. I said you can borrow it from your boss, or you can borrow it from colleagues in the company. He said we both know each other and are friends, so it’s okay to lend it to me and I’ll return it to you in a few days. I didn't lend it to him, and eventually I learned that his character was not very good.

Real friends must help when they are in trouble. Some so-called friends are better off not helping.

My good brother is in a tight situation recently, so I’d like to borrow some money and pay attention to you. Okay, in the future. Definitely return it!

Hello everyone, I am Datong Xiaoai, and I am very happy to answer this question: Your friends usually don’t come to you, but come to you to borrow money. What is your experience?

In life, it is common for friends to borrow money from each other for emergencies, but they must be treated differently. Not everyone can borrow money, otherwise what is lent is affection and what is taken back is sullenness. .

Let’s talk about my two friends:

A is my friend from the same village, one year younger than me, and he was pretty good at playing when he was a child. After graduating from junior high school, I continued my studies, and he played at home for a few years, and later joined the army.

At that time, I just started working, and my salary was only enough to support myself. He usually doesn't come to me, he only comes to me to borrow money. I don't know how a soldier can spend so much money. Every time he borrows three hundred and five hundred, he never pays it back. I haven't heard him mention it since he was discharged from the army, and now we basically have no contact. Although the money is not much, at least I have to mention it.

B is my classmate. We studied together and did internships together. After graduation, we worked hard in different cities. It was a very good relationship. If something happened, just a word would be enough. If nothing happened, we would be there for ten and a half days. No contact.

We know each other well. When anyone has difficulties, he will think of the other person first. If he cannot help, he will find a solution separately. We are usually the kind of friends who can joke about anything. Financially, we have always been They are all clearly distinguished. There is never an IOU when borrowing money, but there will be a time limit.

Sometimes when I know that the other party is in trouble, I will take the initiative to send money over, without having to ask, and I will pay you back afterwards. I feel very comfortable getting along with this kind of friend.

Borrowing money depends on favor, and paying back money depends on character. From this point we can distinguish whether a friend is good or bad. Although some friends don't usually contact each other, they will borrow money when they contact them. If they can repay them in time as agreed, it is still worth making friends.

It’s understandable. Isn’t there a saying that goes “No matter what happens, don’t go to the Three Treasures Palace”?

Nowadays, people are very busy all day long, and they rarely interact with each other. Not to mention friends, there are many relatives who meet during weddings and funerals, otherwise they would almost forget their appearance.

The same goes for friends. The few that I really have a good relationship with usually just meet and say hello, and they look a bit familiar when I meet them on the road.

Asking you to borrow money means that you are still financially well-off. People will never ask someone who is poorer than him to borrow money. They know that opening their mouths is in vain, so there is no need to waste their words.

It is easy to handle borrowing money from people with ordinary connections, and there is no need to worry about it.

1. You can just talk about old times, and then tell him indirectly that you don't have much money, so that you won't hurt your friendship, and you won't embarrass him by refusing outright.

2. Pretend that you have something to do. After doing so a few times, people will understand that you don’t want to lend them money. As long as you are self-aware, you will never open your mouth again.

3. Even if you think his reputation is still good, but he encounters some temporary difficulties, you will lend him money when you are more than capable. This kind of help in times of need will make him grateful for the rest of his life. of.

The premise is that he must be of good character and have credibility.

Now we all have a deep understanding that "borrowing money" is too difficult. No one is willing to open this mouth unless it is a last resort, let alone if the relationship is average.

The initiative to borrow or not to borrow is in your own hands, and you will make a decision based on the situation. It's too difficult to open your mouth, so you should try your best to work hard on your own. Relying on others' help is temporary, but you still need to rely on yourself in the end.

What is your experience like when your friends usually don’t come to you, but come to you to borrow money? It allows you to experience the troubles of rich people. People who take advantage of money will also have dissatisfaction. But on the other hand, it not only means that you are rich, but also a righteous man who responds to your friends' requests. You are a chivalrous and courageous person who would not like others. Difficulties, if you don't help yourself, you can't cope with it. Having said that, your experience is not just a glamorous one. Some people borrow money and refuse to repay it, and they also change their routines and borrow money many times without repaying it. Such friends use you as a cash machine. I I advise you to distinguish between good and bad people, and don’t be fooled when you lose your money. Beware of villains defrauding you of your money and love. You will be happy when you borrow money, but you will break up if you pay back the money. I hope you will be a good person to the end, but don’t be taken advantage of by villains. !

1. It must be because I feel very uncomfortable in my heart. I only think of you at critical moments. This kind of feeling is that I use you when I need you, and kick you out immediately when I don’t need you. Same as the saying goes, a friend in need is a friend indeed at a critical moment, but it is better to stay away from such a person. The most important thing is to see what his character is like

This kind of thing is a premonition. If a friend you haven't contacted for a long time suddenly contacts you, I personally feel that there are only three situations: one is to borrow money, the other is to follow the family (get married, have children, etc.), and the third is to ask for your help (inquiring through other channels about the field you are familiar with) He helps). I have a deep feeling of borrowing money. I usually look at the original relationship. If the relationship is not good, just make excuses. In the past, when the relationship was good, I would find out from my good friends how the person is now and find out whether he is a prostitute, gambler or drug addict, or is it true? I can't open the pot, etc. I'm a nice person and really have an emergency. I don't need much to borrow. In other cases, I just find excuses to get rid of it.

It is indeed suitable in itself