What does a gambler want to say?

I am a gambler. A gambler through and through.

Want to say something. I don't know where to start. I don't want to recall my journey. But ... I can't lie to myself every night. I can't get over it.

The network is virtual and real, and all kinds of people are here. For various purposes, in order to meet various needs. Play various roles. There are boasters. There are lies. There are advertisements. Some treat people sincerely, while others gloat. Very real. At least. That's what society is like.

Actually, I don't deserve to contribute to a place like this. I thought the same thing.

I just hope that all my friends who are still confused and on the road like me can read my article carefully. I believe that even if I can't help you quit gambling. I'm sure it will help you.

I hope all my friends who want to quit gambling will read it quietly and seriously. Thank you.

If there are no gambling friends. It can also be used as a warning. Don't touch these things for life.

Forever.

I'm not here to tell a story. I want to say something from my heart. I believe that people like me have finished reading it. It will definitely change.

No good family, no good job. I made a small bet, hoping to improve the situation. After losing some, it may be a lot for you, which is your salary for one month or one year. At this time, you are unwilling. You have experienced the hardships of making money, and you don't want to let the money go to by going up one flight of stairs, so your hard work is wasted. So I want it back.

So, how can we quit? I want to tell all my friends who are still sinking.

First, all the people who keep shouting to quit gambling and resume gambling have not reached the desperate situation. Such people will never give up. One day there really is no way out. After all, what should be experienced. To really touch your soul. You can still lose, which means you still have a way. Such a person. Time will help you, and one day, you will be cornered. One day. If it really hurts, it will really understand.

Second. If you have realized it, your conscience tells you that you should quit. But sometimes you really can't help it, so listen to me. Go to a vegetable market, a supermarket or something. Take one hundred dollars. Let's see what the price is now. See how many things 1 can buy now. Gradually change your values about money. Gamblers have no concept of money. Also, visit your parents more often. Such kind and simple parents raised us on a dime. My parents are over 50, and I'm still working to help me. My mother retired and still works in the supermarket, earning about 2800 a month. What about your parents? On the way to gambling, all of us lost our correct values and world outlook. Outlook on life. This is really fatal.

Third. Whether you like it or not, stick to it and go to work. Down to earth. You can't make much money. To experience this contribution and gradually integrate into this society. To sum it up. You can't feel the hardship of making money for a day, and you can't quit for a day. You can't feel the hardships of your parents for a day, and you can't quit for a day.

? Another reason why you can't quit gambling. Because it's so lonely. I think this reason is very important. We have to admit. We are hypocritical. On the one hand, I am doing things that I find difficult to say, on the other hand, I am trying to hide them in front of my relatives and friends. A lot of words in my heart. Can only communicate with gambling friends. Then, in order to raise gambling money. Began to cheat relatives and friends. While blaming yourself. While trying to hide it. Gradually, gradually, we found that we had no friends. Lost everyone's trust. Hurt the expectations of the people you love. And then more desperate and lonely. When you are alone, smoking, drinking, whoring and gambling can't make up for your inner loneliness and helplessness. This is a vicious circle. Want to quit gambling. Be brave. Be brave. Confess with friends and relatives, and work down to earth. Find your sense of belonging again. Reintegration into this society. Just like learning English. There is no good environment. No matter how hard you try, it's in vain. Many times, it's actually that we scare ourselves, but that we are timid. I think everyone will look down on us because we are not brave enough. Quit gambling. It takes courage. Really. Many times, we don't have enough courage to face the fact that it has become a reality.

Many gamblers say, you don't know my situation, how miserable I am now. How to despair. That's good. Let me talk about myself. Every gambler touches his conscience and compares with me to see if you are worse or happier than me.

Many gamblers say. What if I owe Koryo a lot of money?

Still owe 18W. I was scared, too. At first, I was very scared. I'm afraid they will come to my house and make trouble with my parents. Afraid that they would hurt my parents and me.

Many gamblers say. I owe the bank money. What if the credit card owes money?

I always owe my credit card 16W. You are afraid that the bank will report the case and sentence you. I'm telling you, I've reported the case, and now I'm on bail pending trial. Maybe one day. I went in before returning it to the bank. I'm in the public security bureau now, and it's all online.

Many gamblers say. I've been to detention centers or something,

I've been there, too. I was arrested for gambling because the bank reported it.

Many gamblers say. I can't lose. I can't stop gambling. I might as well die.

I want to say. I committed suicide and was saved.

? About suicide. I want to say. I regret it now, if I had not been saved. I don't know how parents should face it. I am desperate.

I want to tell my friends. Living really needs more courage than dying. But we are not alone. We missed it. We are confused. But our parents are innocent. They want to see their children. They don't have to throw themselves into the ground, but at least they are healthy and alive. Let's eat together and have a drink with our father. Their requirements are not high. If we were still men. Be brave. Give parents an explanation in their lifetime. Give yourself an explanation.

About credit cards. Many gamblers say I'm several months overdue. I want to tell you. I'm almost two years overdue. The last thing the bank wants is money. As long as you have income and a job. Take a positive attitude towards repayment. The bank won't let you go to jail. Put your heart in your stomach.

In addition, banks have reduction and exemption policies. If your card is overdue for a long time. You also have the ability to pay back the money. Don't be silly. Give it all back. Go to the bank to negotiate. Can be reduced or exempted. For example. The principal of Shanghai Pudong Development Bank is 65,438+08,000. Now I have 35,000 yuan with interest, but the bank reduced it to 2 1000. That is to say, I have 14000 left. This is helpful to all my friends who are going to pay back their credit cards. Unfortunately, I can't even pay 265,438+0000 for the time being. It's really sad

Please all friends who are still gambling, quietly and carefully read what I wrote. I don't lie. I cried all the time when I contributed. Maybe all you see is words. But what I see is my own unfilial. It is the haggard of parents. It's the departure of a friend. I may not have a particularly good literary talent. But I really hope to touch the softest part of your heart. Because of gambling. We began to become strangers. I don't even know myself. I don't even like myself anymore. Even despise yourself. People live to this point, so much. I hope everyone can see it.

Look carefully, look carefully.

I hope I can wake up more friends who are still sinking like me. I also hope to remind more friends to stay away from gambling.