I didn't pass the first postgraduate entrance examination. How should I adjust my mentality?

I am a Libra male, a graduate student of 12. The first postgraduate entrance examination failed. When I saw the result, I suddenly collapsed. I am in a bad mood when I think that I have worked hard for so long, but I still failed. My parents didn't listen to me when they knew, and told me that I wouldn't regret it as long as I worked hard. If I fail this year, I will take the exam next year. Later, I thought about it myself, and I was relieved. I summed up a lot of things to prepare for next year's exam. The following are some suggestions on how to adjust my mentality after I failed in the postgraduate entrance examination. I hope it works for you.

1. If you are not ready for World War II, find a job as soon as possible to enrich your time, so as to prevent thinking.

I suggest you try to find a job in a first-tier city. When you come to a new first-tier city and see your peers who are hurrying and working hard every day on the subway, you will feel that you are a member of the vast sea of people. A failure in the postgraduate entrance examination is just an experience, nothing. Besides, everyone can work for a period of time. At this time, your requirements for the workplace are more clear, you know what you want more, and it is not too late to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination.

Graduate school is only a springboard to a certain stage of your life, not a denial of your life.

Today, we are also in a new media era. Many people have achieved success by their own efforts. As long as you are self-motivated and willing to study hard, it won't be too bad. Some students around me used the winter vacation to interview teachers in private schools. Many of her competitors are graduate students (even seniors who graduated from China University of Science and Technology). In the end, this student stood out from the applicants in the same period with his own efforts and eloquence, and found the first satisfactory job in his life.

Learn not to take yourself too seriously

I am a student cadre, and I usually have a good relationship with teachers and classmates at school. They also have great expectations for me. After the results come out, they are the first to ask me for the scores. I know that such a result must be disappointing and chilling for them, but there is really no way. What's done is done. Escape is not the way.

A senior sister comforted me like this: "Who said that student cadres must get good grades? Who said that student cadres must go to graduate school? Who do you think you are? " Therefore, trying to shrink ourselves, we are just ordinary people, and we can't live in the spotlight all the time. Maybe others don't care about you so much, or someone is waiting to see you fail in the postgraduate entrance examination, so don't let them succeed.

Cheer up, friends, we are still young and have a long way to go. Please be confident and look forward to the future. You work together!

The above is my first failure in the postgraduate entrance examination. I hope it helps you.