How to treat people who have been against you in life?

In daily life, no one can be smooth sailing, and it is impossible to be appreciated and favored by everyone. There will always be some people who like to be true to you and go against your will. In fact, this is a natural phenomenon, because people can't be perfect, and naturally some people will disagree with some of your practices.

I think it is very important to deal with the problem of how to treat people who have been against you in life, because it is not necessarily his fault that people who have been against you. Sometimes it may be your fault that makes them feel disgusted and do the right thing with you. Therefore, you should treat them in two situations:

1. For those who really want us to know their shortcomings, we should accept their objections with an open mind. Some people will do the opposite to your behavior, but they are telling you your shortcomings with practical actions, and they are telling you in another way. Although this way seems to be for others and yourself, if you think about it carefully, they are also for their own good, and you should not have bad feelings or even hatred for them.

I don't think it's necessary to take it to heart for people who have nothing to be picky about. Let them pass after reading it. Some people just like to contradict others, no matter whether things are right or not, no matter how big or small things are, it is an attitude. For such people, we don't need to spend time and energy on them at all, just try to be ourselves, and don't have to estimate their views and behaviors too much.

In short, in life, you should learn to judge whether those people are really good to you, those who are irrelevant. For different situations, we should treat them differently and not generalize.