About the speed of speech!

The speed of speech should be adapted to my speaking ability.

Speech ability refers to the ability of various organs in the phonetic system to coordinate and cooperate when pronouncing. Some stutterers often think that their speech speed is slow after learning the third pronunciation, just to improve their speech speed as soon as possible. As a result, the speed has increased, but the organs often cannot cooperate harmoniously. In this way, on the one hand, it destroys the newly established speaking habits that are not consolidated at all; On the other hand, disharmony will inevitably lead to stuttering, and the result of stuttering is to increase the fear that has just been reduced, which is equivalent to setting up a new obstacle for the formation of speaking habits that fully conform to the pronunciation rules like normal people.

The pronunciation speed of our third pronunciation method is about 160 words per minute, which is based on years of experience in correcting stuttering. In other words, the average person's intelligence (regardless of the severity of stuttering) can only reach this speed in such a long time.

When learning the first and second pronunciations, if you completely follow the correction requirements, then at the speed of the third pronunciation, all organs in your speech system can be completely coordinated in any situation, that is to say, it can adapt to your speaking ability.

Comparatively speaking, this speed is a little slower than normal, but you can't help it, and it's no use worrying. Just like when you just learn high jump and other athletes jump, the coach puts the crossbar at 1.8 meters, and when you jump, the coach puts the crossbar at 1.3 meters. You may feel ashamed, but you can't help it, because your high jump ability is the ability to jump 1.3 meters. If you also put the crossbar on 1.8 meters, the crossbar is as high as other athletes, but the difference is that others can jump over and you can't. At this time, what can the coach say except that you are compassionate and have commendable ambitions? In fact, it is meaningless for you to do so.

It should be said that it is not a hero to lift the crossbar, but a hero to really jump over the crossbar.

If you honestly put the crossbar at the height of 1.3 meters and keep jumping, although you may not catch up with other athletes in the end, your level will definitely improve. If you stubbornly keep the crossbar at the height of 1.8m, you will lose confidence even if you fail 10000 times in a row.

Also like an abacus. You just learned abacus, and you can work out any number. This is your foundation. Of course, it is inevitable that you are not as fast and skilled as the old accountant. You know, when the old accountant just finished learning abacus, like you now, it's not worth worrying about at all. Everyone knows that the abacus should be based on good. No one has ever made an abacus, no matter it is wrong, but the light is fast.

We speak the same way, and every time we pronounce it, we should take the good-harmonious coordination of various organs as the standard. If you can really talk harmoniously with every organ on any occasion and for a long time (for example, millions of times), you can do it even if you are ten times faster than Song Shixiong.

Just like no one has ever said, at the age of three, you are not allowed to go to college, at the age of five, you are not allowed to take a doctor's exam, you are not allowed to carry more than 2,000 kilograms of sacks, you are not allowed to jump more than 2.7 meters, and the speed of running 100 meters is not less than 9 seconds.

No one has ever interfered with you, but why don't you do that? Because, as you know very well, your ability can't reach that level at all.

You know, normal people have been talking like that for 20 or 20 years, and we have only learned 15 days. If you are not a super genius, you can't reach the level that others achieved in a decade or two in 15 days. In fact, normal people are different. What we can do is that normal people speak slowly, which is the foundation. What I want to say is, let's not do stupid things, it's too late to mend. In China culture, the most absurd motto is better late than never. Better late than never fully reflects the inertia of China people. If a person doesn't know that the sheep will run away if the sheepfold is broken, it is dementia; Knowing that the sheepfold is broken and not repairing it is inertia; Of course, it is better to repair the sheepfold after the sheep have run away than never, but this is at the expense of losing the sheep. Why can't you suddenly change and plan ahead?

What I mean by saying this is that we should stop doing stupid things. It is a helpless and the worst policy.

We know whether stuttering has nothing to do with stuttering itself, so we stop paying attention to stuttering and control stuttering. We know that we should inhale before pronouncing, exhale immediately after inhaling, and pronounce at the same time when exhaling, and we know that this is the harmony of various organs and completely conforms to the law of pronunciation. We also know that in pronunciation, the first sound of each word should be induced, which shows that we have changed our previous speaking habits, and changing our previous speaking habits will make our future pronunciation no longer restricted by the conditioned reflex formed before. On the premise that all organs are in harmony and fully conform to the pronunciation rules, we know that your speaking speed should be adapted to your speaking ability in any occasion. You know all this well, so what remains is how to form a speaking habit that completely conforms to the pronunciation rules like normal people as soon as possible.

Speaking skill

First, how to improve oral expression ability

1, the factors that make the speech irrelevant

(1) content-if the purpose of speaking is not clear; Can't grasp the topic; Lack of adaptability to prominent phenomena.

(2) technicality-such as lack of coherence in speech; Thinking confusion; Words cannot express meaning.

2, the method of correction

(1) Study hard and build up self-confidence.

The first thing is to be bold, or you will tremble first, and your mind will not keep up. Confused, naturally incoherent. Secondly, I am interested. Usually like to reason with others, vulgar and elegant. Then master a little conversation skills, and there are many such examples in magazines such as Speech and Eloquence.

(2) writing-reciting-speaking three-step training method

(3) Try to be concise.

(4) Eliminate inferiority and enhance self-confidence.

Summary: first, courage, second, interest, and third, skill.

Second, correctly understand "what you say must be done"

Topic writing, student grouping, topic discussion.

1. Summer vacation is a good opportunity to travel abroad. If you have been to a tourist attraction, please talk about your gains from this trip. Of course, if you don't travel, please talk about your own views on the phenomenon of "tourism economy"

2. In a class competition, you are going to apply for the position of monitor, but you hear an ironic remark: You are just bluffing! How to answer this cynicism?

Weihai will regularly and quantitatively supply water this summer. What do you think of this?

4. What do you think of being a middle school student who has been edified by old textbooks? Do you have any suggestions or opinions on the reform of teaching materials?

Please give your opinion on a latest scientific and technological achievement.

6. Please talk about your views on a news hotspot.

7. Recently, when filling in the college entrance examination volunteers, do you choose your favorite major or those "hot majors"?

8. Do the advantages outweigh the disadvantages or the disadvantages outweigh the advantages for middle school students to go abroad?

9. Teachers and parents are very critical of the phenomenon of "doing big things" on middle school students' birthdays, but middle school students never tire of it. What do you think of middle school students' birthday celebrations?

10, electronic (computer) game, parents hate it, students can't stop it: it has such great magic! Please talk about the advantages and disadvantages of students playing games from the perspective of students.

Third, how to make words humorous.

"Four Steps" of American Speaker Richard's Impromptu Speech

How to make an impromptu speech to avoid being caught off guard and falling into an embarrassing situation? Richard, an American speech expert, summarized the "four steps" of impromptu speech. These four steps are: 1, hello, hello! 2. Why waste this breath? Like 3. 4. What should I do?

Fourth, pay attention to the cultural and traditional background when speaking.

Advocate speaking like a book

Clear:

Analyze Taoism with examples

The modification of the sentence "You are a spineless scholar" has different sentence patterns and different meanings, and the words used are closely related to thoughts and feelings.

The rewriting of Li Guang's shooting tiger in Historical Records has different meanings.

The phrase "Monks push the moon down the door" has different meanings with different words.

The analysis of three or four sentences in Huishan Boiling Little Dragons is full of associative significance.

Comments on idioms such as "Liu Mian" are all old sayings and nothing new.

3. On the basis of the above discussion, list and comment on the examples of extracurricular search.

Clear: This question is difficult, so the teacher can first quote some familiar examples to explain, such as:

See peers become new ghosts.

Gaiwen: endure watching peers become new ghosts

Commentary: "Seeing" does not mean "forbearing".

The spring breeze came to Jiang Nanan again.

Change Text: Spring Breeze and Green Jiang Nanan.

Commentary: Compared with "Tao", "green" describes the vitality of Jiangnan, and also reveals the mood of joy and excitement.

Original: The branches of red apricots are full of spring.

Changed text: The branches of red apricots are full of spring.

Commentary: Not a word "noisy" can describe its apricot red, but its red is thick. "Noisy" will have the meaning of "sound" with the scene without "sound". Vision and hearing in daily experience are interrelated, and the subtle feelings of aesthetics are conveyed at multiple levels.

Finally, on the basis of summarizing many examples in and out of class, let students know that words are closely related to thoughts and feelings, and language goes hand in hand with thoughts and feelings. When words move, they will move their thoughts and feelings at the same time. Only by hard self-motivation, constant innovation, constant refinement and consistency in thoughts, feelings and languages can we gradually achieve artistic perfection.

Five, the breakthrough of successful speech

The "angle" here refers to the foothold, focus and starting point of the speech, which is related to the establishment and choice of the theme.

It is an effective "breakthrough" in the selection of materials and expressions.

First, the orientation of the theme should start with reminding the essence of things.

Second, the choice of materials should start from reflecting the characteristics of things.

The characteristics of things are often not unique, which determines the way in which their external characteristics go deep into the essence and are interpreted horizontally.

No, in other words, there are many entry points. The speaker uses a certain feature of things as a trigger point to express emotions in theory.

Through the rendering of images, some experiences, laws and philosophical thoughts of human society can be extended and inferred. reversed

Reflect the meaning of the theme in a characteristic framework. This can not only inspire the wisdom and insight of the audience, but also create

Set the realm and atmosphere of philosophical beauty.

See Soil Association:

Third, the angle of language expression should proceed from the actual needs.

When the theme and materials are determined and memorized, we should make a good choice in thinking, refining ideas, structure, skills and words.

Measure, how to focus on how to speak well, three-dimensionally reflect the content and ideas of the speech, and make the speech vivid.

Spilled, comprehensive, profound and perfect.

The lecture "Journey of Blood and Fire" reflects a * * * situation from different sides through a set of lenses.

The same theme:

In addition, when selecting and determining the angle, we should also pay attention to the following issues:

First, choosing the right Huns is the most basic requirement. That is, it can not only reflect the essence of objective things, but also grasp the characteristics of things.

Signs, more importantly, the established angle should be able to express intentions, analyze Ming Dow, and make the speech have the best persuasiveness.

Power and attraction.

Second, we must choose clever and surprise.

In short, the angle is the "breakthrough" of a successful speech. If you want to speak deeply and creatively, you must choose the angle.

And transformation.

Six, how to use persuasion methods

Flexible persuasion method

● Invert black and white

Once the conventional logic is confused, people's thinking will make mistakes and lose their judgment ability, which is a common psychological feature of people. It aims to break the sophistication of the other party's logical thinking structure and should not be bound by conventional logic.

● Use legal names.

Fame always has a magic power, which can give people hope, stimulate the desire for fame and fortune, and induce the yearning for a new life. It can inspire those who regret and those who seek goals.

● Use numbers to improve credibility.

Even if the content is unconvincing, the credibility can be greatly improved as long as specific statistical data based on surveys and objective facts are listed, because many people are superstitious about data. Remember, it is best to be accurate after the decimal point, such as "99.9%".

● Refute the theory with facts.

When the other party puts forward a theory, it refutes it with concrete facts. Because the more people emphasize the theory, the more they lack specific materials, so they should insist on refuting it with facts.

● Don't be greedy for small and lose big.

There is a proverb that says, "Picking up sesame seeds and losing watermelon" is a metaphor for greed for small and losing big. Sometimes you have to improvise and throw away sesame seeds. If we only focus on avoiding immediate losses, it may lead to irreparable losses in the future. If you only pay attention to immediate interests, you may lose the overall situation, which is the so-called greed for small and loss of big. So have the courage to throw sesame seeds.

● Expose its shortcomings.

Although it is a discussion, once it escalates into an argument similar to a quarrel, it is difficult to find a solution. At this time, instead of using appropriate language to carry out the theory, it is better to directly attack the other party's physical, ability and status defects. This method is despicable, but if you don't advance, you will retreat. Victory is the most important thing.

Seven, how to use metaphor in speech.

Prepare a wonderful language for the speech.

In the speech, if you can prepare wonderful language in advance, it will become the crowning touch of classroom teaching like a poetic eye.

First, clever metaphor

Second, portray the image.

Third, create a situation.

Fourth, the side sign is widely cited.

Eight, how to use exaggeration and irony in the speech (omitted)

Nine, eloquence communication success ladder

Modern society is a society of competition and cooperation. Some people fail in competition, while others succeed in cooperation. What is the secret? In business, there is a saying that "golden words are precious words" and "good words come first"; In politics, there is a saying that "leaders will answer questions" and "it is a transaction to be promoted"; There are "the finishing touch" and "the language of breaking the subject" in the cultural circle, and life, death, honor and disgrace are often tied to one word. It can be seen that in modern communication, whether you can speak or not, and the amount of knowledge and ability related to verbal communication really affect a person's success or failure. In society, people's abilities are different. To get to know them quickly, we might as well look at their eloquence and oral ability, which is mainly manifested in the art of speaking. The power of language can conquer the most complicated thing in the world-the human mind. Through the medium of successful eloquence, unfamiliar people can get familiar with it, and the long-standing gap can disappear. Even contradictions between units, social organizations and countries can sometimes be solved through it. If it is a language, China is an ancient civilization and a country of etiquette. It not only has four great inventions, such as Wan Li Great Wall, Tang Poetry and Song Poetry, but also is highly developed in eloquence and communication art, which is second to none in the world. In history, Confucius used oral art for education; Yan Zi makes his eloquence extraordinary; Su Qin hung the seals of the six countries with eloquence; Zhang Yi lobbied around to make contributions; Fan Sui called the king of Qin; Touching the dragon said that Zhao Niangniang; Lin Xiangru's "Returned to Zhao"; Zhuge Liang allied Wu against Cao Cao, and his rhetoric was full of Confucianism ... There were many eloquent masters such as Liang Qichao, Sun Yat-sen, Lu Xun, Mao Zedong, Zhou Enlai and Wen Yiduo in modern times. "Listening to you is better than studying for ten years." Indeed, talking with those knowledgeable and eloquent people is more exciting than drinking a pot of wine and more refreshing than listening to a symphony. Good writing can bring joy and pleasure to people, help you increase your knowledge and cultivation, stimulate your creativity and enhance people's emotional harmony. "Eloquence, money and computer" are the three most powerful magic weapons. Eloquence is the first of the "three essentials", so its function and value are not trivial. Eloquence and communicative competence are indeed the most important ways to improve our quality and develop our potential. It is indeed an invaluable treasure for us to control our lives, improve our lives and pursue career success. Throughout ancient and modern times, Chinese and foreign countries, all successful people regard eloquence as one of the necessary qualities, such as Cicero, a politician in the last years of ancient Rome and China. He is an orator, and we love him. It is no exaggeration to say that eloquence is the art of language and a clever form of expressing thoughts and feelings in spoken language. People who know the art of language and the way to get along with each other will not force others to have the same view as themselves, but skillfully lead others to their own ideas. Those who are good at expressing their thoughts and feelings accurately, aptly and vividly in spoken English will often succeed in their work. On the other hand, people who don't know the art of language will end up killing themselves. A philosopher in the west once said, "There is an achievement in the world that enables people to accomplish great things quickly and gain the understanding of the world, and that is the ability to make speeches pleasant." Talents may not be eloquent, but those who are eloquent must be talents. Eloquence is the basic quality of modern intelligent talents, and quick thinking and good eloquence are the guarantee of career success. A good speaker must first have keen observation and a deep understanding of things. Only in this way can he speak. Secondly, we should have strict thinking ability and know how to analyze, judge and reason, so that we can speak in an orderly way. Finally, be fluent in expression. Indirectly, we must be knowledgeable in order to speak vividly and fluently. It is precisely because eloquence has the characteristics of comprehensive ability that eloquence is the symbol of knowledge and the ladder of career success.

Ten, speech experience sixteen (omitted)

XI. Correctly grasp the speaking time limit

As we all know, speech is neither an endless pure endurance competition, nor a black humor that floats away after taking a bow on stage, but an information dissemination activity within a certain period of time, which involves the time limit of speech. Today, when everyone believes that time is money, time is efficiency and time is life, we might as well discuss this seemingly no problem.

First, the specific purpose and content of the speech are the essential factors that determine the time limit of the speech.

It must be short.

What is said above is that the specific purpose and content of the speech are the essential factors to determine the time limit of the speech, but once the purpose and content of the speech are determined, does it mean that the time limit of the speech is completely "frozen"? Practice has proved that the speaker can also adjust the content and time limit of the speech according to the changes of the audience and environment. This involves the art of "machine change" in the time limit of speech.

Second, change the time limit for speaking.

Any speech is not only a direct information dissemination process between the speaker and the audience, but also a social activity in a specific environment. Generally speaking, although the speaker has made full preparations before the speech, due to the influence of subjective and objective factors in the speech, some unexpected things will inevitably happen. In this case, the speaker should adjust the content and time limit as appropriate, which is an important way. There are usually two situations:

Compress the content and shorten the time limit. Add content and extend the time limit. For example, the class teacher originally intended to make a short speech on discipline inspection and discipline at the class meeting, but during the speech, he found that some students were absent-minded and did not pay enough attention. At this time, under the premise of affecting the whole workflow, we can increase the amount of information, extend the time limit appropriately, and explain it in detail with vivid examples to achieve the expected purpose of the speech. What I want to emphasize here is that two factors must be considered in the use of this temporary increase in content and extension of time limit in the speech: one is necessary, and the other is appropriate. Both are indispensable, or they are "loafers", that is, the foot-binding cloth of the smelly and long lazy woman that everyone hates. "

Twelve. The charm of speaking lies in sincerity.

On this day, the author walked into an electrical appliance store, and a voice with pure and bright timbre and powerful bass attracted attention. A salesperson greeted him warmly with a professional smile and introduced this new product. His introduction is very good and smooth, from performance advantages to structural characteristics, from price comparison to after-sales service, one by one, while demonstrating. At first, I was moved by his enthusiastic and skilled introduction and had a good impression on the products. I wanted to ask something, but he kept talking like a barrage, and I couldn't get a word in. He keeps talking, whether you understand it or not, no matter how you react, as if he won't stop until you take out your wallet. So, I was a little unhappy, especially when he praised his own brand and belittled other brands. I couldn't help but wonder about his motivation: Is the product really superior after such boasting? Suddenly, this question swept away the previous goodwill. Out of politeness, I am embarrassed to walk away. Fortunately, another customer came at this moment, and I took the opportunity to "escape" from the store. Needless to say, the salesman was disappointed and resentful of wasting his breath.

I can't help but say that this is a well-trained expert salesman, but he is also a salesman who doesn't know how to talk. Why does his endless introduction extinguish customers' desire to buy? This is worth pondering.

A large number of facts have proved that the charm of speaking is not how fluent and eloquent you are, but whether you are good at expressing sincerity! The person who can sell products best is not necessarily an eloquent person, but a person who is good at expressing sincerity. When you express your sincerity with appropriate words, you win the trust of the other party and establish a trust relationship between people, and the other party may like what you say by trusting you, and then like your product.

This is true not only for salesmen, but also for everyday language. A well-recited and fluent speech is unfair and disorganized. Although eloquent speeches are smooth and beautiful, if they lack sincerity, they will lose their appeal, just like a bunch of lifeless silk flower, which is beautiful but not vivid and charming. Therefore, the first thing a speaker should think of is how to inject your sincerity into his speech and how to convey his ideas to the other party. Only when the listener feels your sincerity will he open his heart and accept what you say, and then he can communicate with the other party.