Children always swear, and swearing has become a habit. How should parents guide him?

We often say that children are gifts from heaven, but what about gifts as children grow older? The novelty gradually faded, replaced by the test and torture of parents, especially the children in the language sensitive period. Almost all children in this period have said bad words, perhaps occasionally or often, so parents' attitude is very important.

Not long ago, Mix discovered that her children could swear. On weekends, Xiao Xiao takes her children out shopping. When going to the toy store, the child saw a toy that she liked very much and pestered her mother to buy it for herself. Because there was already a similar toy at home, Mix refused the child's request.

The child was stubborn and begged his mother piteously. Mix can only politely explain to her daughter. After explaining for a long time, the child got angry and pointed to his mother and said loudly? I'll kill you if you don't buy a substitute? I was shocked when I heard the child talk like this. Pedestrians on the road pointed at the mother and daughter.

When Xiao Xiao took the children home angrily, she ignored them, but in the following period, Mix found that her children began to swear more and more, and the content was not repeated, sometimes? Are you an idiot? ,? You are a smelly little girl. I think it's strange. My husband and I will pay great attention in front of the children. How do children learn these languages?

One day, Xiaoxiao took her children to the playground downstairs to play. Xiaoxiao found that boys who often play with children seem to swear. After careful understanding, I realized that the child's mother went to other places because of her work, so she could only ask her grandmother to help take care of the child. But the child's grandmother is used to swearing, but she can't change it for a while, and the child has learned to swear.

In fact, we often hear children swearing, and some parents may smile gently or reprimand their children severely. In fact, for children, swearing may be just because it is fresh and fun, and children don't even know what swearing is. Therefore, parents should not let it go, let alone yell at their children.

In the face of children's swearing, smart parents will do this:

Cold treatment:

Most parents get excited after hearing their children's dirty words, and even scold them loudly? Tell me about your children. How do you curse? Who did you talk to? Next time, I will reprimand the children blindly, which is likely to have the opposite effect to the parents' expectations. When children see their parents' fierce reaction, they will think that such words can attract their parents' attention more, so they will enjoy it.

Parents should learn to treat their children's dirty words coldly. Parents should know that children don't really know the true meaning of swearing. As long as parents don't respond, children will find swearing boring and naturally don't want to swear.

Understand the reason:

Parents should first know why their children swear or where they learned it. They can sit down and have a good talk with their children in quiet time, slowly guide them to tell where they learned it, and then firmly tell them that swearing is not a good thing and let them know the disadvantages of swearing.

Lead by example:

Research shows that parents' language has a far-reaching influence on children before they are three years old. If parents often quarrel and call names in front of their children, children will become difficult to get along with and often call names. On the contrary, if parents create a good language environment for children, children will follow suit and consciously resist swearing.

In short, children are likely to swear just for fun, not to hurt others. Therefore, if parents find their children swearing, they must give them correct guidance, keep them away from swearing and treat others with a warm and positive image.