Talking about an unhappy marriage (for an unhappy woman)

Read such a sentence:

"How many wrong people does love have to go through before it meets the right one?"

Yes, in this life, no matter friendship or love, there are countless people coming and going around, but only a handful of people are right.

It is precisely because of our desire for love that we are confused in love, thinking that heartbeat is fate and honey juice is true love.

However, time can test people's hearts best. When you gradually realize that you made a mistake, will you just let it go? Or continue to entangle with it?

In fact, regardless of love or marriage, if you want to meet the right person, you must do one thing.

What I want to tell you is that only if you are willing to let go of the wrong person can you meet the best person.

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I have seen such a post on the Internet:

The girl's mother especially likes to collect beautiful cups, so whenever she sees beautiful coffee cups while shopping, she will buy them and give them to her mother at home.

But every time she takes the cup home, her father will be very angry with her mother, saying that she is melodramatic, that she is full and has nothing to do, and that she only fooling around all day.

The girl said in the post that fortunately, her parents divorced. Now her mother finally found the right person. Her mother's new boyfriend not only supported her to collect coffee cups, but also personally made a wall for her to collect cups.

The girl finally wrote: "It's good to find someone who knows himself in this life."

Seeing this, I suddenly understand why some people say that "marriage is not necessarily for happiness, but divorce must be."

I think, as long as anyone has a partner with different views and looks on coldly, this marriage will turn into a tragedy.

Therefore, what is wrong is wrong and not suitable for your love. I would rather be single than force myself.

Just like this girl's mother, maybe after the divorce, she will find that not only are men angry with her for a cup, but also men are willing to build a whole wall for her to collect cups.

If she didn't give up the wrong person, how could she meet someone who really suits her heart?

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Xiaoyan and her husband really didn't think about this before they got married. One day, her husband will abandon her because he prefers boys to girls.

In the second year of marriage, Xiaoyan gave birth to a lovely daughter for her husband, but at that time in the hospital, when her husband heard that it was a daughter, his face was a little ugly.

As soon as I got home from the hospital, my husband told her to have a second child when my body recovered.

Due to Xiaoyan's heavy bleeding during childbirth and her slow recovery, the doctor also suggested that it is best not to have children in the last two years. So, after their daughter was two years old, they were officially ready to have a second child.

However, for a long time, Xiaoyan's stomach just did not move. When she went to the hospital, the doctor said that she was suffering from gynecological diseases and needed surgery, but it was difficult to get pregnant after treatment.

Later, during Xiaoyan's treatment, her husband actually had someone else outside and proudly said to Xiaoyan, "I just want a son, and you can't have one." I have to find another woman to have me. "

Xiaoyan certainly couldn't tolerate her husband treating herself like this, and she went through the divorce procedure with her husband the next day.

Half a year later, Xiaoyan met a divorced man. He not only doesn't mind Xiaoyan's difficulty in getting pregnant, but also is considerate to her and her daughter.

Soon, they formed a new family, perhaps because of God's blessing. A year later, Xiaoyan became pregnant again and gave birth to a baby boy. A son and a woman form the word "good".

Later, Xiaoyan heard that her ex-husband married that woman. After the other party gave birth to a daughter, she threw her daughter to him and ran away with another man. This may be God's punishment for this man.

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To a woman with an unhappy marriage: don't lose heart. In fact, there is still a way to go, see if you dare.

That is, learn to stop loss in time.

My friend Zhu Xiao divorced her husband at the age of 40. There is no betrayal or quarrel between her and her husband. When she filed for divorce, her husband said she didn't agree to anything. Later, she filed a lawsuit with the court and finally divorced.

At that time, everyone opposed her divorce, and her husband also wondered if she had someone outside.

After the divorce, she spoke her mind. She divorced for happiness, because she didn't want to spend the rest of her life in indifference.

In the emotional world, many women want to be loyal to each other and feel that since they fall in love with someone, they should never be separated.

Of course, it is the wish that everyone of us expects, but if the person you love is wrong, you should stop the loss in time and learn to let go decisively.

Just like Zhu Xiao, letting go is just to choose new happiness.

Because life is a process of trial and error, it is a success for you to pursue love bravely and get what you want, but it is also a success to leave bravely when you find that you are not harmonious with each other.

Although we can't guarantee that the next person we meet is right, at least this person is wrong at the moment.

If you want to find the right person, you must first give up the wrong person, so that you have a chance to meet the right person.

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In the face of marital misfortune, not every woman has the courage to stop loss decisively and start a new life. There will always be one reason or another, so that they have no courage to choose their future life.

This kind of moment may not be allowed by objective factors, but in most cases, it is often because women are too fragile to take that step and change their ways.

This may be the saddest side of a woman, so how can we change it? The most important thing is to make your heart strong and have the courage to face marriage.

So speaking of which, I hope you can finish reading this book and be a woman with a strong heart.

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Of course, this set of books not only gives the theory, but also gives some practical methods and means to help you make the right choice in the right way and get the best result on the road to becoming strong inside.

I hope that after reading this set of books, you can really become a strong, independent and confident woman and live a wonderful life of your own.