What are some tips for learning to chat with girls?

Actually, I don't think chatting with girls should be like auditing accounts. People have made it clear that they don't want to talk about it, and you will annoy everyone if you keep asking. Before chatting with a girl I admire, I always listen to her first, then find the topic she likes to talk about from her narrative, and then talk to her. Generally speaking, when talking about sensitive topics, I won't say a word if the other person seems to be very exclusive. Unlike some boys, it's irritating to ask for an explanation if you want to get to the bottom of it, so I respect each other more. As the other person gets to know me better, he will naturally talk to me more thoroughly and tell me many things without reservation. There is no need to ask too much.