How much is the general gift for marrying a daughter-in-law in Changde, Hunan, and how much is the dowry?

As an out-and-out Changde native, I have lived in the urban area for more than ten years. Now I am in my hometown Anxiang. Generally speaking, when a daughter gets married here, there must be a betrothal gift. The amount depends on the woman. Let’s talk about the specific situation. Our current custom here in Anxiang is that the woman will return whatever betrothal gift the man gives to her as a dowry. Generally, it is 50,000 or 100,000. If the man is in good condition, the gift may be more. This is still the custom here. Yes, and you will also be given a lot of bed linens and other things as a dowry. If the conditions are good, you will also be given dowry money for your daughter's marriage. The amount depends on your family's conditions. Generally speaking, the wedding holiday customs here are good compared to other places. .

But in our area, if a man has no ability or his condition is not good, it may be difficult to get married, because now women, including their parents, are very realistic, and there are not many people who really talk about feelings, right?

I am from Zhejiang and married to a girl from Changde. Regarding the bride price, my parents-in-law never mentioned it at that time. I decided to give the woman a red envelope, which is what I should do. What about the amount of wedding gifts? I never thought about it. Both of them have reached the wedding gate, are they still worried about the bride price? Later I learned that there is a very good custom in Changde, that is, when you are recognized as the prospective son-in-law of your parents-in-law, you are a member of his family and are all relatives, so why talk about interests? I admire the generosity of Changde people.

I am a spring breeze blowing across China, let me answer:

I have a say in this question because I am from Changde and have worked in Qiandongnan, Guizhou some time.

When marrying a wife in Changde, the bride price is not very high, usually tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands of yuan, with the lower price in the city and the higher price in the countryside.

The woman’s family will usually require the man’s family to buy a commercial house. Full payment is required if the conditions are good, or a mortgage is required if the conditions are poor.

A car is generally not a necessary condition for marriage.

Jewelry and wedding dresses for both men and women are generally handled through negotiation between the man and woman, and the man’s family will provide appropriate financial support.

After the bride's family receives the bride price, they generally cannot withhold it. They will add some money, or double it, and accompany their daughter in marriage.

The dowry can be cash deposits, cars, houses, etc. Or both. But the value is generally higher than the bride price. Of course, the dowry money and items are usually given to the young couple, and the groom’s parents generally do not want them.

According to the custom in Changde, the bride’s family also provides some cotton wool and other bedding and daily necessities as a dowry. However, this custom is gradually being diluted. Usually before the wedding, the groom's family will prepare it. Both families can discuss the matter through negotiation.

Generally speaking, regarding some wedding customs, Changde city will be relatively simple, while rural areas will be relatively complicated. All these require friendly communication between parents and parties concerned in advance and to accommodate each other as much as possible.

What I know about wedding gifts for people in Guizhou is similar to that in Changde. There is definitely a dowry, but depending on the family situation, it may not be higher than the bride price. The details of wedding customs are basically the same.

Guizhou people are hospitable and sincere!

But the Guizhou people I know are more concerned about face and pomp than the Changde people. This is something you should pay attention to when discussing marriage.

Changde has many national titles, and they are not just blown away.

Changde people are generally generous, tolerant, warm and friendly, and easy to get along with.

A daughter-in-law from another province will definitely be more accommodating, more loving, and more caring!

I wish you a happy marriage soon!

I am from Changde. Anyone who marries a girl from Changde will become rich. We do not talk about betrothal gifts here. Parents give more dowries to their daughters, which can be as little as one hundred thousand yuan. The man does not need to pay a penny. Whatever dowry you give will be given to you on the day of your wedding. Changde people are decent, and they pay more than parents for their children. Generally, it is Do your best. This is how I married my daughter.

I'm from Changde. Nowadays, when I buy a house or a car, I usually buy money based on my wishes. Take me for example, I only want 20,000 yuan, and my natal family also gave me a dowry of 60,000 yuan. Come here, as long as you are determined, why worry about how much money you have, as long as you work hard, everything will be possible

I am from Changdejin City, and I don’t need a bride price for my wedding.

I am from Changde. Betrothal gifts in Changde are very casual. Generally speaking, there is no mention of betrothal gifts. For those who do, the dowry is usually much more than the betrothal gift. Therefore, people in Changde do not favor boys over girls, but the bride price will lighten the burden on the woman's family.

My sister got married on New Year's Day, and she was married from another province. She gave her a bride price of 180,000 yuan, which was all returned later. The family also gave her another 100,000 yuan. As for the other clothes and clothes, they didn't count. My brother-in-law and the others were I was frightened and said that I had never seen the bride price and I could give it all back. . . [Covering face] can only explain that this is our custom in Changde. .

I am from Changde and I have the most say!

My neighbor next door got married at the beginning of this year. The bride price was 100,000 yuan, which did not include gold or silver jewelry. There was no requirement to buy a house or a car. We must be classmates, and the husband’s parents are ordinary working people. , my home is a bungalow built a few years ago, with an area of ??more than 200 bungalows and four or five houses. When I got married 5 years ago, I paid 50,000 yuan for gold and silver jewelry. Some people my age The wedding gift is about 20,000 yuan; a cousin of mine is getting married during the Spring Festival next year, and the bride’s family wants 100,000 yuan as a gift, including gold and silver jewelry, a house and a car. My cousin has a resettlement house, but the woman’s family has not done anything. There are too many other requirements. The two met through a blind date and are both born in the 90s.

In fact, we Changde people are quite sensible about the gift money, because we Changde people pay attention to bringing back the gift money. For example, if the woman wants a gift money of 100,000 yuan, then the woman’s parents will add 100,000, and then let the woman take it back to the man’s house as the property of both husband and wife. Unlike some places where the bride price is completely given to the woman’s parents, the woman in Changde will usually ask for the bride price according to the situation. If the girl's family is not in good condition and she wants a gift of 200,000 yuan, it will be very embarrassing for the girl's parents if the girl comes up with an unmatched 200,000 yuan.

This is basically the amount of gift money for ordinary families in rural Changde. Families in urban areas or with good family environment may ask for more gift money. Of course, it is not ruled out that some families want more gift money. situation, but this situation is still not common. It is almost 2020. Anyway, the bride price in rural Changde is basically about 100,000 yuan. Even if you don’t need a car or a house, it will cost at least 7,788 yuan to get married. It is also around one or two hundred thousand or two or three hundred thousand, which is a lot of money for rural families. If they want to buy a house or a car, it is basically unaffordable for ordinary rural families!

I was given a gift of 30,000 yuan, my mother-in-law gave me 15,000 yuan to buy home appliances, and my wife came to the house and my father-in-law gave me 30,000 yuan as a dowry. Things are calculated separately. My wife and I are both from Changde. Married for 11 years,