What is it like to fall in love with a soldier?

1. From then on, I paid special attention to military-related topics because I wanted to understand his life and let each other have more topics to talk about.

2. I know his work and rest time very well. Every time I chat with him, in the middle of the conversation, I will suddenly say that I have an emergency gathering, training, and tasks. It's really sweet and helpless.

3. I feel particularly safe and enjoy the feeling of being taken care of. Things on the table are always neatly placed. The quilts are folded like tofu cubes every time. My shoes and clothes are always neatly arranged. The things are tidied up better than yours. You don’t have to worry about not being able to cook. You don’t have to worry about him not being able to carry you. He will just pick you up and leave if you disagree.

4. He is very warm and reliable. Sometimes when you call his name, he will shout it unconsciously. It is so cute. He has a great sense of justice and upright views. When you are with him, you will slowly be infected by him.

5. His physical fitness is very good. After being with him, he often pulls him to exercise, such as getting up early, running, climbing and so on. I am no longer the girl who stayed in bed.

6. Even though you are no longer single, you are often regarded as a single person by people around you. You rarely have the opportunity to go shopping and eat together. Sometimes even making a phone call becomes a luxury.

7. I used to think that long-distance relationships were very hard, but now I realize that long-distance military relationships are the most saddening. We can only communicate by mobile phone every day, let alone meet in person, sometimes even for a month or two. Not a single phone call.

8. Become strong and independent. We only meet once a year, and you are in a hurry every time. Even though you have martial arts, you can’t protect you. You have to face and solve everything in life alone. There is little company, and he may not always be there when you need him. But who told me to like him?

9. Don’t pray that he will have time to accompany you to buy things, watch movies, or give you a very expensive gift on your birthday. (The time and proportion of military outings are very popular. Restricted, even for veterans with long military service, this is the so-called iron discipline).