Cancer problem

It's a little long, but be sure to look carefully (I'm a cancer, too)

Cancer is soft-hearted and easily moved. Even though there is always a hard shell on the surface, there is a soft and sensitive heart under the shell. They hesitated in the face of a relationship. Don't call them cowards, they just know that they are vulnerable. They believe in feelings, innocence and eternity, so they are sometimes very picky.

This is a hard shell, but it is easy to conquer, because crab crab has a soft heart.

Crab crab is in love. At this time, they become very clingy and very old-fashioned. Because you are its center, it will think a lot of you. Have you eaten? Will the weather change? Remember to bring an umbrella! There are many cars on the road, so walk slowly! ....... and so on!

Crab crab is deeply infatuated. Falling in love with someone will be deep, even if you know that there is no result, you will be unable to extricate yourself. This is a kind of stubbornness of Cancer. What you want is often not easy to let go. Sometimes, a fruitless relationship will become the focus of crab crab's life. This is undoubtedly painful, but it is difficult to extricate itself. However, Cancer's insecurities cry out to give up in her heart, so crab crab has been suffering from a huge contradiction between persistence and giving up. Learning to give up is one of crab crab's lessons.

Of course, if crab crab really decides to give up, its determination will surprise everyone.

Remember: no one can hurt you except yourself.

Crabs are spoony, but they are not good at expressing themselves. They are stiff to their loved ones and reluctant to let go. Their sense of humor has become dull at the moment.

Crabs have feelings, but they are not good at grasping them. Why can't they control their emotions again and again and say things they know they shouldn't?

The divided and imaginative hermit crab talks about several idols that have always been appreciated before talking about cancer. They are all different, but they have one thing in common, that is, they are all cancer men. Stephen Chow, Wong Kar-wai, Tayu Lo, Jonathan Lee, Tony Leung Chiu Wai, Jacky Cheung ... Cancer, which is always ranked at the bottom every time, seems to have an inconspicuous personality, but their intuition and acuity in art are unmatched by others. It is not difficult to see from these names. They are gentle, passive and often silent in life, but in their movies and songs, they show amazing talents, which makes us always fall for them involuntarily. Stephen Chow made us laugh until we burst into tears. We also heard that he was serious, unsmiling and hard on friends and lovers. As we know, Tony Leung Chiu Wai, the best actor who plays everything in the play, has lived with Carina Lau, a shooter with different personalities, for more than 20 years and still refuses to get married. He always said that his life was actually in the play; We know that Jacky Cheung used to be a gangster in the underworld before his debut, and he gave up on himself with a hangover every day. We also saw that Jacky Cheung still worked hard for his family after he became famous and almost collapsed. ...

This is cancer. In fact, the most telling feature of cancer is that no matter what kind of crab, it has the idea of division. They are eager to be stable and get ahead, and their hearts are full of artistic inspiration and exaggerated fantasies, but in real life, they always look down on their eyes and it is difficult to really show their fantasies. Therefore, on the stage of art, they can bring their strange fantasies to the extreme. They can interpret any song and any role in a penetrating way, all of which come from passive acceptance in life and get the best catharsis in the palace of art, so Cancer really belongs to the stage. Even if they don't have a good voice and good looks, they have good sensibility and expressiveness. Their personalities are actually more like hermit crabs. In their real self-life, they often wrap themselves tightly, but when reading and interpreting others, their inner feelings are released.

Another advantage of Cancer is that they have philosophical thinking ability. The world rises and falls because of two forces, and the image of water is a typical feminine force. Aquarius people have a natural view of the world, and so does cancer. In addition, they are born with maternal love complex, so their thinking often has humanistic care. Therefore, a cancer engaged in art-related industries can be regarded as a lucky cancer anyway, because it can give full play to its natural character. But not every cancer has such an opportunity, so most cancers will feel depressed and painful. They are not without desires. On the contrary, they have many needs and desires, but they always hide in their shells, dreaming all kinds of dreams, just thinking and rarely realizing them. Therefore, if what you see is always ugly, cancer is not a real cancer. That's just an illusion of cancer.

The inferiority complex that can never be erased is actually a group of people who feel good about themselves, but it is difficult to overcome the inferiority complex that they want to hide in their shells all the time. They are naturally suspicious and sensitive. When they encounter difficulties, they first hide in their shells, deceive themselves and weave their sense of security in their dreams, but they never think of how to actively turn crises into opportunities. Their negative way of dealing with difficulties makes it difficult for them to really stand out. They always seize the opportunity they think is the best, but this opportunity never appears. Actually, how can there be a perfect solution in the world? When crab crab struggled to communicate with each other, the great opportunity had been lost. However, this innate inferiority complex is really hard to change, and there is little crab crab can do.

Nostalgia is the main theme of Cancer life. Cancer is nostalgic. They like old things, cherish old feelings and have a natural attachment to their families. Yellowing photos, faded ribbons, dusty dressing tables ... all the old things with romantic feelings can make them feel sad and sad. They are always immersed in memories of the past, always remember their loneliness and sensitivity when they were young, always remember their first love, and still look around for news of their first love after many years, comforting them with fresh memories for many years. Therefore, Wong Kar-wai's films always like to start with the following sentence: Many years later. ...

They are inherently pessimistic and always need a little more and a little more security. Why do they need security so much? Because they are naturally insecure and prone to panic, they become very suspicious. Think carefully about falling in love with cancer, because they will suddenly be hot and cold, suddenly ignore each other and suddenly speak ill of each other, but in fact they don't love you, and sometimes they will be angry with themselves. They are eager to be with you 24 hours a day. They are so possessive of their lover that they can't wait to give you their heart and lungs. They pay attention to your little things, from buying you hairpins to helping you choose which bus ... They work hard and think about everything for you all the time, but they are more and more worried that they will not get equal love because they pay more and more. So they will suddenly get cold. Maybe just because of your eyes, they think you are not as good as before, so they start to do endless tests. They always beat around the bush, but they always want you to always make a clear statement. When you get vague, it's over. Crab crab immediately reflexively began to come up with countless virtual scenes. In endless pessimism, they fantasize about various tragic scenes, and then when they see you again, they are already cold. Even say absolutely heartless words-so, you should try to get along with them, give them enough trust and security, and they will give you back, and you will be moved to tears.

In fact, cancer is good at camouflage. They like to laugh. Whenever and wherever, they often smile. Maybe this smile is sometimes comforting, but sometimes it makes people feel hypocritical. Of course, Cancer always has its own villains, but their hypocritical premise is always to protect themselves first. They are cautious about the benefits they get, which sometimes makes people feel that they are not very narrow-minded, but in occasions such as friends' parties, they are absolutely generous and take the initiative to pay the bill. So in fact, Cancer is a person with a clear concept of public and private. They are absolutely rude to what they deserve, and feel that this money is nothing when they treat their friends. They are attached to their relatives and friends and basically like wine. Moreover, the alcohol consumption is not bad, because they are attached to the atmosphere of mutual enjoyment of guests, but also to the sense of harmony at home. Therefore, cancer likes cooking. Even if it can't cook, it has a natural preference for food. They know how to enjoy family life, so it is the happiest thing for cancer to have an ideal marriage. The problem is that cancer people often choose to marry late or not, because they are suspicious and afraid. They are always full of doubts about new fantasies, yearning for and rejecting new families, and constantly wasting time in self-contradiction.

Create a sense of stability for yourself. Cancer is always very upset. This is a bad feeling. Because of this, many cancers waste time and are unhappy all day. In fact, cancer can try to create a sense of stability for itself. Find an object that everyone in the family likes and build a home of their own. Maybe Cancer will find that she will become much more stable. Finding a Capricorn is an ideal choice. Or find a hobby of your own and devote yourself to it, and you will become much more stable. Of course, crab crab may say, it's easy for you to stand and talk. If it's that simple, do you have to say it? oh However, in any case, when we realize our anxiety, we should try our best to overcome it. In fact, the world outside the shell is not so terrible, which is true.

Generally speaking, people in Cancer are very cute, especially those who have made artistic achievements. They have created amazing monuments, and people in Cancer don't have to feel inferior for no reason. In fact, you are all very attractive.