"My son's doctor, your undergraduate course, is really unattainable": Some people can miss a word, what do you think?

People will change with the environment.

When you understand this truth, you may be more open-minded when facing all kinds of joys and sorrows in your feelings. Sometimes, you think that you have been together for a long time and you know each other well. In fact, you ask yourself, do you know him at the beginning or now?

In front of the person you like, everyone unconsciously wears a filter, because there are beautiful moments when two people were together in their minds, so they don't want to look at each other with the most utilitarian eyes.

When we love someone, we are always willing to give each other trust, and expect the other person to repay us with the same trust and firmness.

however, feelings are also a matter of rubbing sand.

If you already have some doubts and entanglements in your heart, the sincerity of the other party in the face of this relationship. Without exception, in fact, your sixth sense is the most authentic message.

It's just that most people won't give up easily if they haven't really hit the south wall. Therefore, while many people meet in love, many people are separated because of complete chilling.

after all, love is not everyone's joy. For others, it may be growth and suffering, and it is a robbery through this long time.

everyone in the game has his own constraints and unwillingness, but what can he do? Finally, when faced with the result, we all had to give up.

Yes, when the result is already in front of you, in fact, all the conditions you can think of to derive this result are correct.

A reader said, "If you say that, then he just dislikes me, right? I don't deserve him now, I don't have a low education, I can't keep up with his footsteps, and I am ashamed of him in front of his relatives. Even though he once loved me deeply, now he just changed. "

The gap between them began to emerge quietly when her boyfriend kept improving his education and she entered the society and began to work hard.

There is no intersection between their work and life at ordinary times. Although they occasionally mention things around them, they can't go into depth. They are all simple, and the other one won't comment because they don't know what to say. Her work, her boyfriend is not interested, and her boyfriend said that there are some things in the laboratory, and she will not be very interested, so the two simply have to talk about life and talk about the past.

When they met, she was a freshman, and her boyfriend was a junior. Both of them went to the same school. Her boyfriend was a senior she met in the club. Later, when she was a sophomore, they began to formally get together.

When it comes to campus love, many people still envy it, because campus means purity and simplicity, and liking means liking. The emotion of liking is the first thing, but the other conditions have not been seriously considered.

even so, at the beginning, she still wanted to have a bright future with him with the most expectation.

Because of her boyfriend, she stayed in this city after graduation. This city is not their home. She went to school from other places, and so was her boyfriend, but her boyfriend's plan was to stay, so she also stayed.

Her life plan is different from her boyfriend's. After graduation, she works directly. Compared with graduate school, she wants to get out of school quickly to make money. Her boyfriend has been studying, studying graduate school and later studying for a doctorate.

As a result, their relationship gradually changed invisibly.

in the first year after she graduated from college, her boyfriend took her back to her hometown and met her parents. Her boyfriend's family conditions were not very good, and she had a younger sister at home. Her parents both lived in the countryside, and she seemed to be a very simple and kind person.

she doesn't dislike the conditions at her boyfriend's home.

her boyfriend said that in the future, if the two of them want to stand in the city where they work, they have to rely on themselves. His parents at home can't help, and he doesn't want to spend any more money from their parents.

After listening to it, she also agreed, because although the conditions in her family are better than her boyfriend's, they are not much better, so she always thinks that the two families are more suitable.

after graduation, she has been trying to save money, just thinking about buying a house then, and she can do her part. Because she is earning money and her boyfriend is still at school, she always considers her boyfriend's financial situation and is reluctant to spend his money.

Her friends all say that she is really a good girlfriend. Every time she hears about it, she feels that she has done not perfect in this relationship, but she can also say that she has done her best.

she couldn't think of anything that could separate two people.

and life is often good at giving you a fatal blow when you think everything is all right.

The last contradiction between them still appeared, and it seems to be an irreconcilable state.

In fact, she realized it long ago, because her boyfriend always unconsciously said something like this after studying PhD, such as:

"My classmates and tutors all thought my girlfriend was a graduate student", "A relative in my family introduced me to a girl who graduated from graduate school, but I didn't go to see her" or told her to pay attention to improving herself and read more books.

at first, she didn't take it to heart, because her career has been moving forward and her salary is rising. She is also focused on her career, and she doesn't like reading.

In the past, when I was studying, I did well in the college exam because she was clever. In fact, she didn't like reading at heart.

Her boyfriend's urging made her feel unhappy, thinking that he didn't respect herself, while her boyfriend said that she should keep up with her own steps.

There was an unpleasantness between them, but later, because of one party's compromise and apology, these contradictions were temporarily covered up.

Until recently, she went back to her hometown with her boyfriend for the second time. Originally, this time she was going to discuss marriage. It has been nearly five years since she graduated, and it is also time to talk about marriage.

Who knows, her boyfriend's mother, who was very kind to her, said this in the evening: "My son, doctor, your undergraduate degree is really out of reach."

She was puzzled, and then she realized that it was a relative of her boyfriend's family who wanted to introduce her boyfriend to a girl who was a civil servant. Her boyfriend's mother thought that civil servants were good, but her job was unstable and unseemly, so she made such a comparison.

When her boyfriend learned about this, he didn't say anything, but only persuaded her not to take it to heart and care so much about her elders. Then he blamed her and said that she had relatives at home, and she shouldn't have turned her face.

after returning, the two men inexplicably started a cold war, and they haven't contacted each other for half a month. She was angry and didn't contact each other, and the other party didn't contact her.

she knows that her boyfriend is waiting for her to compromise.

Her boyfriend is a person with a good face. No matter in front of outsiders or family members, he cares about his face very much. He thinks that what she did that day made him lose face in front of his relatives.

She used to defend him in front of outsiders and take care of his self-esteem. Everything followed him, and sometimes she often compromised first and put in a good word to avoid more contradictions between the two people.

She said, "I used to think that no matter what problems we had together for many years, I should not give up and stick to it, so I have been maintaining this relationship. Now I finally realize that some things can be done without hard work. We still can't get to the end. "

she broke up and the other party hasn't responded yet.

I'm sorry to hear that the beautiful scenery we walked together when we were young was finally defeated by reality. She has been treating the feelings of two people with the original state of mind, but they are no longer their original selves.

if life is like the first time, there is no need to draw a fan in the autumn wind. It's easy to change, but it's easy to change.