Why don’t people nowadays want to get married?

Because of some excessive wedding arrangements, some people are afraid of getting married and don’t dare to get married! It’s because of those hateful and excessive marriage troublemakers!

Wedding, a ceremony with blessings and blessings from family and friends, has always been a symbol of romance and happiness.

Girls long for Prince Charming who is waiting for her in a wedding dress, and boys are longing for Snow White who is marrying him with everyone's blessings. Everyone racked their brains to gather all the beauty in this ceremony. Jay Chou's wedding of the century a few years ago gave everyone great fantasies and expectations.

But at some point, the wedding turned into a violent carnival. Beating the groom with a whip, spreading salt on the wounds, tying the groom to a telephone pole, throwing ink on eggs and setting off firecrackers, tying the groom up, and falling to the ground causing facial fractures...

Angry? If it doesn't exist, you are the protagonist, and if you make everyone unhappy, you are the sinner.

Resist? If it doesn't work, it's tradition. If you don't follow the custom, you are being unfilial.

The reason why a wedding is a ceremony is that when marrying a daughter in ancient times, the father-in-law called his son-in-law to his room and taught him how to care for his daughter in the future.

What a good custom that has been passed down to this day, but it has become a shield for wedding troublemakers to openly release their bad tastes. In the name of "making a fuss and sending blessings", they carry out dirty things that hurt and humiliate people. thing.

At a wedding ceremony, a newlywed couple was kneeling down to worship an old man. As a result, a man suddenly grabbed the bride by the neck and forced her down to the ground.

As a result, the groom next to him continued to kneel down calmly. Some onlookers shouted "Don't panic, don't make trouble", but no one came to help the bride. The bride, who was angered by this behavior, turned around, stood up, and gave her a big slap in the face.

A drunk father-in-law walked on the stage with his arms around the bride. The bride looked quite unhappy at that time. The host had just finished praising the bride for "doing as the Romans do in the country" when her father-in-law suddenly hugged his daughter-in-law and forcibly kissed her! The host was so frightened that he screamed "Hey, hey, hey," and what was scary was that the surrounding guests started to boo, and some took the lead in applauding...

In a village in Kaiping, Jiangmen, Guangdong, at a wedding, the man's brother When the group went to pick up the bride, they sprayed ribbons on the bridesmaids. Some even sprayed the bridesmaids in the face with a fire extinguisher, which almost sent the bridesmaid to the hospital.

Witnesses said that some of the bridesmaids were sprayed unconscious and even vomited...

For this reason, the editor has selected a few who are most likely to have bad marriage troubles and be demonized. In the basic wedding process, I would like to educate everyone about what correct and civilized wedding customs should be. You must start from yourself, do not blindly follow, do not act like a monster, and resolutely resist criticism and unreasonable demands. Only then can you eliminate those bad habits in weddings.

1. The door-blocking game grasps the time scale, is fun and does not hurt feelings

① Communicate and understand in advance and learn to say no

Whether it is the bride or the bridesmaid, both must Find out with the groom in advance whether there is a custom of making trouble with the bridesmaid and the bride, how to make trouble, and what the format is. After understanding, express your attitude clearly, and be sure to reject unreasonable marriage customs. Only by choosing the right person can you have a wonderful wedding experience and married life

② Take certain protective measures

The most common items are pepper spray and anti-wolf spray. Protective tools for girls that can be found online.

③ Say hello in advance and ask relatives and friends to pay attention to your phone calls or requests for help sent on social platforms, such as: Moments or Talk

Bridesmaids or brides should pay attention to themselves. During the wedding ceremony, you can have your mobile phone at your fingertips at any time. If something unusual happens, you can immediately call or send content to social networks to ask for help from the outside world.

2. The bridal chamber can be warm and big, but it must not be obscene

Vulgar news and pictures of bridesmaids quarreling are common on the Internet. The bridal chamber is a time for couples to have fun with their relatives and friends after the wedding. But it should also be divided into priorities.

If vulgar and obscene games are allowed to appear in the bridal chamber, it will not only embarrass the newlyweds, but also inevitably leave a gap in people's hearts. What's more, accidents may occur and end miserably.

3. It is also an indispensable step to stop the marriage from becoming a nonsense and change the social atmosphere. You can take action from the following aspects:

① Relatives and friends should have a sense of proportion.

② Newcomers must learn to refuse.

③All people must correct their morals.

To resist vulgar marriages, we must not only increase the punishment from the law, but also change the concept, abandon vulgar customs, and resist vulgar marriages.

Only a wedding in which the groom is in good health, the bride does not lose her dignity, and the bridesmaids maintain their innocence can be a happy, memorable, and lifelong dream wedding.