What is the most annoying thing among colleagues?

1. Duplicitous behavior. They don't say anything to your face, but talk nonsense behind your back. He laughs in front of you and puts a black brick behind your back.

2. The act of taking advantage of others. Eating and shopping with colleagues never pays for it. Colleagues send red envelopes to groups on WeChat. Such people actively grab red envelopes but never send them out. Secretly taking toilet paper from the bathroom at work, etc.

3. Unprincipled flattery. It's normal to flatter the leader appropriately, but it's disgusting if you shoot without principles.

4. The act of defaming others. This kind of behavior is the most disgusting. In order to achieve their goals, they use any means, and for their own benefit, they do not hesitate to deceive and slander others to achieve their own goals.

If we want to have both sides of the fence in the workplace and prosper, we need to handle interpersonal relationships carefully. Being able to get along happily with colleagues reflects your ability to deal with others. In the workplace, your abilities and work abilities are hard power and the exchange value you can provide to others. The ability to deal with people is the soft power of gaining extensive interpersonal networks and connections. "The benevolent see benevolence, the wise see wisdom." There are no fixed patterns and rules for how to behave and treat others, but some practices, especially those that are not ethical or that benefit oneself at the expense of others, will definitely arouse others' disgust, resentment, isolation, and resistance.