How can my mother-in-law refute that you are lazy?

When my mother-in-law said you were lazy, she retorted:

1, your son is just an ordinary man, not as great as you think. He married your daughter-in-law, not because other girls climbed into your house, so he cherished her.

We mothers all know how lazy our son is. Don't say that your son is busy and you want your daughter-in-law to do housework. He is busy chatting QQ and playing games. You actually know it in your heart.

Don't let your daughter-in-law take care of your son like you do. He is your son and your wife's husband. Her daughter-in-law will only treat him as a husband, not as a son.

Don't speak ill of your daughter-in-law in front of your son. If you do this, you will only make them quarrel endlessly. Finally, the last straw is divorce. If you divorce because of you, you will be guilty.

When your daughter-in-law gives birth to a child and takes care of the child, you can say that you have no obligation, but please remember, when you need to take care of her, please don't think about her. Your daughter-in-law has no obligation.

Don't think that your daughter-in-law wronged your son by asking him to do some housework. The family belongs to two people, and he has the obligation to share it.

7, don't always say whose daughter-in-law is good, no matter how good it is, it is also someone else's, you can't think of it. If you want a good wife, you must first be a good mother-in-law.

8. Don't think your daughter-in-law owes you just because you are kind to your son. Even if you collect debts, you should find the right creditor. If you want your daughter-in-law to be filial and care about you, please be kind to your daughter-in-law. It's not your request, you must ask others to satisfy you.

9. Don't always worry about how much money and room your daughter-in-law has. No matter how much, it doesn't matter to you. It's not your turn.

10. Daughter-in-law goes back to her parents' home to buy things for her parents. Please don't be jealous, because they have done more for her.