My husband thinks I'm wordy, and I feel bad.

Your husband may be tired after a day's work and want to have a rest, but you must have given him a lot of advice for the purpose of taking care of him. I think since he won't listen to your nagging, you might as well say what you need to say to him. As for many housework, you can talk to your good sisters or neighbors. Maybe you are a housewife who stays at home all day and wants to talk to someone, which is understandable, but I think women should also have pursuits and spiritual sustenance, so that you will not be bored.