There is no best, only better (there is never the best in life)

Although humans live on this earth, hundreds of millions of people share one earth and one sun. We all share the resources of society, but everyone's life is very different.

Some people work busy from sunrise to sunset, but they fail to live a life without worries about food and clothing. They are still accompanied by poverty, squeezing into buses or riding bicycles every day, and struggling at the bottom of society regardless of rain or shine, living in darkness.

Some people work nine to five, are well-dressed, and ride in small cars to and from work, regardless of sun or rain. And with a considerable salary, consumption requires class, and going out requires aura. Making friends requires levels.

Life is so helpless, and there is no justice. It is true that if there is no comparison, there will be no harm, and there will be a trace of happiness in the heart.

Just like the conversation between three female colleagues, it made me melancholy for a long time. What is the right thing for a man to do? I also wonder that people have too many needs and many problems in life, and no one can live a free and easy life.

Xiao Jiang complained: My boyfriend only knows how to buy me gifts every holiday, and he doesn’t know how to cook for me. Xiao Song said: Only in this way can it be shown that he is willing to pay money for you, and spending time to make gifts is an operation without financial acumen. Xiaoya said: You are all too difficult to maintain. I just want my boyfriend to have some as gifts, whether they are made or bought, it will be good if he can remember the day.

I just want to say that everyone's desires are always different. The value of satisfying inner needs is not at one point, and it is even more difficult to meet the endless demands of some people. Only in one sentence: Those who are content will always be happy. Otherwise, he or she and the people around him will never meet the bottomless requirements.

There are countless answers to the happiness that everyone feels in life. Let me talk about myself first. When I was a student, I had the opportunity to read enough books. It is a joy to be able to pursue a future as a teacher. When I am taking care of my children, it is also a very happy thing to have someone who can take care of my children overnight so that I can have a peaceful sleep. Now, having someone to accompany my children to study makes me feel happy when I can go to work peacefully.

In other words, if I did everything, maybe I would still be unhappy. Teaching has the worries of teaching. No matter when your child is sleeping, you have to worry about whether the quilt is not covered properly. When you devote yourself to work, you still worry about whether the child's grades will get worse.

I always remember the first time I went out to work in Shenzhen with a group of little girls. I got on the train with one of my cousins. To correct you, I didn’t sit on them, they were all pushed in through the car window. I wore some thick clothes, just after the Spring Festival, and outside was a woolen vest that my sister hooked up for me. Several people pushed me out of the car window, and none of the buttons could be fastened.

After entering the carriage, standing up was a problem. Sweating profusely, feeling hot and thirsty. The uncle put all the backpacks in the corner near the inside with a salute. The crowded conditions made it almost impossible to get food and drink. Seeing and not being able to eat, everyone was standing there like a needle in a seam. Five or six of us girls complained that we were very thirsty and hoped that our uncle would bring some oranges from his bag to eat. The uncle said: I can’t get it. He looked out the window and said: It's snowing outside. Let's grab some snow cubes for you to eat, or go outside and get some water from the ditch for you to eat. At that time, every word from my cousin would bring comfort. After all, we were still young, and it was our first time traveling far away, so we didn’t know how to keep some emergency thirst-quenching items in hand. It's pathetic and ridiculous now that I think about it.

Perhaps, in times of crisis, it is good to be alive. In a fire, it is good to be able to escape the fire area. In the event of an earthquake, it would be nice to be able to move outside the house. When suffering from illness, as long as we don't endure the suffering and pain, we can even die immediately.

If we don’t have too high demands on everything, we just need to live well in the moment. If the fate of life is not so cruel and ruthless to us, we don't have to be so far-fetched to demand too much perfection from life.

Because there is never the best in life, but only better.

Living in this world is not only about enjoying and gaining, but also about giving and contributing to the people around you. Only then can we have more happiness and joy!