The child 15 years old has been stealing. For several years, repeated education has no effect. How to help children correct this behavior?

Awasuhomlinski, a famous contemporary educator in the Soviet Union, once said: "Children should be made to understand in the first line of the first page of children's moral literacy textbooks, because they live in a crowd, their behavior should have boundaries, and they should learn to dominate and control their own desires." Therefore, no one is born a thief, and any thief is influenced by acquired factors, which leads to crime. A student's moral education should start from the day he enters school. If a person doesn't develop the good habits of moral behavior when he is young, it will be a thousand times more difficult to carry out such education in his youth or youth, so your repeated education will have no effect.

As a parent, do you know why children steal things? Is it to satisfy one's own material interests or is it a complete habitual behavior? Or to satisfy curiosity and excitement? A child of 15 years old has entered adolescence, and he has formed his own immature concept. This period of time is also a rebellious period, and I don't like to listen to my parents' education. Then, it is better to change the way and use the conversation between friends to understand the child's heart.

Why not learn from western parents' educational methods?

First of all, put away the condescending attitude of parents and don't treat children in an educational or accusing way. The more this happens, the more rebellious children are aroused, which is counterproductive. It is better to take the children to eat western food, watch movies with them, have a cup of coffee with them in the coffee shop, talk and laugh, and get closer to them. Then calm down and have a good talk with the child, understand the reason why the child steals, and then enlighten him. And tell the child the danger of doing so, and clearly tell him what consequences stealing will bring to him. As an adult, he may face legal sanctions, and his beautiful youth may be destroyed in his own hands. And tell your children that if you want something, if you like something about your classmates, come back and tell your mother. Let's analyze whether this thing is useful. If necessary, parents will definitely buy it for you and won't steal it.

Let children fully understand that a good life and material satisfaction are created by their hard-working hands, not stolen by improper means. In that case, your happiness will be greatly reduced.

Finally, tell your child sincerely: Mom and Dad love you very much and do everything for you. I will also believe that you can get rid of bad habits and know that you are a good child. You know, encouragement is the best medicine for children.

After in-depth discussion, I believe that children will definitely have scruples when they want to steal again. Don't look at him like a thief, so he will doubt what you say. Trust him completely. First, arrange extracurricular activities for him to enrich his extracurricular life. Spend more time with children, develop good living habits, and make children willing to communicate with their parents.

I believe that only in this way can children grow up healthily. Don't blame the children. Small trees always have some branches, so they need gardeners. On the other hand, children's behavior also reflects their parents' education. Ask yourself if you don't care enough about your children. So, don't try western educational methods. Bless your children and family.