What if the elderly who live alone refuse to follow their children, go to nursing homes and hire nannies?

When you are old, you don't want to leave your former residence. Because people are familiar, places are familiar, and living habits are used to it. You should understand him, how difficult it is for parents to raise their children! Just get what he wants. The solution is always more difficult than it is. As long as you have filial piety, you can stay at home with the elderly. If the conditions do not allow, find relatives or people who care about him to accompany you, and you pay. Just take care of yourself. If you can't take care of yourself, you must take care of your children. This is your duty and responsibility. In the meantime, you can't find any reason to ignore your parents, otherwise, you will be condemned by your conscience and will be discussed.