What should I do if my parents are too strict?

Poor parents in the world, parents always want their children to become talented, and strict requirements are the right thing to do. Junior high school students are in the rebellious period. No matter how strict you are, you will go astray, so you must understand your parents.

Now, the children grow up according to their own wishes and go to college in the United States. I cannot say that I am very successful in educating my children, but I am very satisfied with their condition. Happiness and confidence have become their tone. I don't have any rules at home. Call your grandparents, respect your elders, and acknowledge family gatherings.

That’s all these bits and pieces. What I hope more for my child is to make him feel that this is a good thing, rather than rigid rules like three obediences and four virtues. A well-educated child understands the bottom line and the rules. Don’t do evil, don’t lie, don’t run red lights, etc. These are important social education contents.

In contrast, I have higher requirements for his social education. I believe they are well educated and understand all this. Generally speaking, if the family education is too strict, the children will have little potential. When I'm in China and can't get through to them on the phone, I get very angry. But when I think about it, many families make several phone calls every day looking for their children.

The child may not be promising, so he feels at peace inside. My young friend Kato Kaichi came to Beijing from Japan with nothing and became an influential current critic. As a young man, he couldn't have been better.

Her mother never called him, and their relationship between mother and son did not weaken. So I reassured myself that my child was busy too, so just calling once a week was enough.

Of course, if the child doesn’t call me for a month, then I will be angry, but there is nothing I can do about it. I try my best not to show it. I hope that my children will grow up in a free and happy environment. In the final analysis, a child is a person with independent personality and independent thinking, and you must respect him.