A talk about rebellious period and menopause

When menopause meets the rebellious period, sparks fly and the mother becomes unkind and the son unfilial. The mother who was once full of tenderness in her child's eyes has become no longer gentle, and has almost reached a state of hysteria. And the child who used to be clean and innocent, and who was considered innocent, immature, and clever in his mother's eyes, became very strange. He had his own thoughts and stubborn opinions. When we conflict with each other on trivial and specific things, we form a confrontation situation. This is a kind of contradiction and disagreement caused by complex psychological needs.

Once a child in the rebellious stage decides to do something, he will not change his mind no matter how hard he tries to dissuade him. The more he is not allowed to do something, the more he has to do it. If you tell him to go east, he will definitely go west. Even if he deliberately disobeys others, he will always adopt the opposite attitude, words and deeds, and they are incompatible with each other. Communication has become difficult. Is it due to improper education methods that ignore the child's self-esteem and psychological endurance, or is it a lack of communication and respect?

At the age of forty, I feel that I have reached menopause, and my temper has become uncontrollable. Like children, they have no ability to control themselves, and their emotions are happy and sad at any time every day. The Black Weekend seems to have become a prophecy, always coming as scheduled every weekend, like a cat and mouse comedy, each with its own hidden agenda and a battle of wits and courage. The moment he opened his mouth to call mom, I was sure that I had won this week.