What's it like to have a good in-laws?

Having a good in-laws feels very good and can feel the feeling of being cared for.

1. I have a big heart, so-so. I was worried that my boyfriend (now husband) parents who have been together for a long time would not like me. After all, in his mouth, the father-in-law has requirements for his daughter-in-law's height and appearance (barely up to standard) and family conditions (not up to standard), and the mother-in-law is a strong woman who has a lot of ideas in her eyes.

2. When we met for the first time, I was timid and clever, and prepared 5, gifts for my door. My in-laws didn't show any dissatisfaction with me, and they were friendly.

3. After playing there for three days, I sincerely told me one night that the eldest son has a job and the younger son is doing business at home, so he supported the younger son financially, but he didn't.

4. Parents treat them equally. At that time, I was at a loss. What I was thinking was whether you gave money to the eldest son or the younger son. What does it have to do with me? My father-in-law said at that time that you are both college students and have your own ideas and opinions, which is much better than the decision we have to make without education.

5. As parents, we respect your decision and wish you well. At that time, I suddenly felt "one of my own" and felt particularly respected. When I left, my grandmother stuffed me with 1,8 yuan and explained to me that this is the number of relatives at home, and it is not good to give much. At that time, my salary was only over 2, yuan, which was a huge sum!

6. It's the first time to meet my in-laws, and it feels very good. We are in the capital city, and our in-laws are in the county, which is four and a half hours' drive away. It costs * * * 5 yuan for two people to go back and forth by car. Every time we have a short holiday (three days), we will go back to the county. Every time I go back, my in-laws will give us a thousand dollars, but they will put them in my hand, saying that it is not easy for you to come back and the fare is quite expensive. At that time, our wages were very low. I had more than 2, yuan and my boyfriend had more than 3, yuan. We were not very good at cooking, just moonlight.

7. Later, I took a year off from work, and without salary, I was even more strapped. My in-laws didn't say anything and treated me as usual. My mother-in-law is not in good health, so she will come to see a doctor every two or three months. My parents-in-law add something to us every time they come. Air conditioners, tables, rice cookers, exhaust fans, and changing faucets. If you have nothing to buy, just come and give us three or five hundred dollars.

8. My husband and I live in a flat in Baiping, and we are both lazy. We clean it once a week. When my parents-in-law come, I will do some emergency cleaning, but it's not very clean. Every time I come, my clean mother-in-law will always start cleaning without saying anything. Some people say that we are lazy, but if we just say it, it will be gone, and we will not tell anyone, and we will not be very blamed. My parents-in-law never ask me to do cleaning, but my husband. In order to encourage us to cook, my in-laws always bring vegetables, good pork, chicken and other dishes. I know that neither of us is very good at cutting vegetables and can't handle big dishes well.

9. They all cut the vegetables, then repackage them in food bags and put them in our freezer. We are asked to take out a bag in the morning, put it in the refrigerator, and cook food when we come back from work, so we can fry it directly. When you come to our place, your mother-in-law cooks and your father-in-law washes the dishes. I have been at my mother-in-law's house many times. Basically, my mother-in-law cooks meals. I take the initiative to wash dishes. By the way, I don't wash dishes in winter. Sometimes I am lazy and don't want to wash. When they don't say anything, my father-in-law will wash the dishes. When I was pregnant, my husband was still lazy. I was depressed and in a bad state. My mother-in-law criticized him privately and he changed. I didn't wash the dishes when I went to my in-laws' house.

1. My husband fell while riding an electric donkey in a rainstorm. I talked about it when I was chatting with my in-laws and sighed that we should try to save money to buy a car. Riding an electric donkey is a bit dangerous in rainy days. My in-laws bought a Corolla for my husband when they came to us again. We have never heard of them buying us a car before. In the same year, we received the certificate, and they said two words of blessing on WeChat. I've always called my uncle and aunt, and I think it's awkward to call my parents. When we got home, my grandmother gave me 35 thousand dollars to buy three gold coins, saying that you can buy your own favorite styles, and you don't understand the needs of young people. When my husband and I first got together, we said that our bride price was 1, yuan, but after a long time, we didn't mention it. After all, the bride price came to me, and my parents said it didn't make any difference, and they didn't mention it. But my in-laws gave 128,. Of course, I used it to pay the down payment later. There was a lively wedding. When I saw my husband calling me mom and dad, I started calling my parents-in-laws. After the New Year, my in-laws urged us to buy a house. Without saying anything, they gave me 3, yuan as a down payment, and the money was directly credited to my card. I am very grateful, because I know very well that so much money was not blown by the wind, but was saved by the elders and borrowed money. Although their personal consumption is not low, it is not high either.