As the saying goes, it is better to persuade gambling than to persuade whoring. What is the second sentence, a wise saying?

As the saying goes, "it is better to persuade gambling than to persuade whoring." The second half of the sentence is "it is better to borrow a house to stop the funeral than to borrow a house in pairs", which means that you would rather lend your house to others for funeral than to outsiders for happy events. Because the ancients thought that the blood of husband and wife would bring bad luck to the owner of the house after consummation. "Persuading gambling is better than persuading whoring" means that you can persuade a person not to gamble, but you must never persuade a person not to prostitute.

Because if you can't persuade gambling, at least there will be no side effects. If you can convince others, thank you very much. If you can't convince them, you won't be resented. Persuading prostitutes is not good, because it involves many aspects, such as family level and interpersonal relationship. Prostitution is serious enough to lead to the breakdown of family relations. In the end, the parties will blame who, of course, will blame the informant. Don't be a peacemaker in this matter, at least not selfish.

It is difficult for an honest official to break the housework, and it is inevitable to interfere with other people's housework. Of course, pornography is a bad thing, so we should supervise our family and friends not to get involved. It is an ancient practice that "it is better to borrow a house in pairs than to stop mourning." The dead are the most important. If a person is poor and has no place to hold a funeral, he can help as a friend and neighbor, because the ancients thought the coffin was a good omen, and there was a saying that "seeing the coffin makes a fortune".

Never borrow a house to get married, this is a taboo in ancient times. If you leave the blood of husband and wife, it will be a bad luck that you can't get rid of all your life. Just like there is a custom in the countryside now, a daughter can't share a room when she takes her husband's family back to her mother's house, and the same is true. Naturally, we can't accept all these proverbs, but also take their essence and discard their dross.