"I hate menstruation coming to my house", the child's unintentional sentence reflects the hidden injury of many families.

Children's concept of right and wrong is still improving, so their "childlike innocence" will naturally not be taken seriously by adults, but it must be said that sometimes children's unintentional words put adults in a very embarrassing situation. Children are simple-minded. In daily life, parents should know how to be cautious in front of their children and not mislead them too much.

"I hate my aunt coming to my house." The child's words made the whole family very embarrassed, and the reason behind it was even more thought-provoking.

Xiaoya's husband and wife live with their in-laws. Usually two people go to work, and the children are brought up by their parents-in-law. Although there will inevitably be some minor contradictions under the same roof, on the whole, a family of five get along well. However, since Xiaoya's sister-in-law moved to live nearby, the contradiction between Xiaoya's family has increased.

From time to time, my sister-in-law will go home for a meal or stay for one night. Xiaoya was very popular at first. After all, everyone is the same age, so it's easy to play together. However, Xiaoya gradually found that as long as her sister-in-law came, her mother-in-law would always try to make things difficult for herself.

After a long time, Xiaoya also figured out the reason. Obviously, the mother-in-law listened to her daughter's "advice", which is an embarrassing scene in disguise. Xiaoya sometimes can't help complaining to her husband that her mother-in-law and sister-in-law are making things difficult for herself, and all this is also seen by her ignorant son.

My mother was very unhappy after seeing menstruation's visit, and the little guy's impression of menstruation was naturally much worse. One day menstruation went home again, and the child said, "I hate menstruation coming to my house!" " "Although the child didn't continue to talk, her mother-in-law and aunt's face was a little ugly.

As a result, my sister-in-law left without eating that day, while my mother-in-law lost her temper at Xiaoya. "How can you teach children like this?" This adult is so ignorant! Xiaoya was very wronged after hearing this, but she also replied to her mother-in-law, "This is my home, and I have the right to speak!" "In this way, the child's casual words made the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictory for many days.

Obviously, both mother-in-law and Xiaoya did something wrong in this matter. Dealing with the relationship or emotional distance between adults is best not to affect children. After all, children are simple-minded, and should not be caught in the grudges between adults.

1, indicating your bottom line, neither supercilious nor supercilious.

It is a necessary process for people to get along with each other and test each other. If Ma Bao can clearly show his bottom line at this time, communication will be smooth in the future. Otherwise, blind compromise and concession will only make her more wronged, and at the same time, it will also lay a time bomb for getting along with her husband's family in the future, so that her supercilious attitude will win more respect in the eyes of others.

2. Stay in the same camp as your husband.

Whether Ma Bao can get along well with her husband's family depends largely on his attitude. If the husband stands firmly on his side when there are contradictions and differences, then the attitude of the husband's family naturally dare not neglect easily. With her husband's support, Ma Bao will naturally have a certain family status, and she will have more say in the future relationship with her husband's family.

3, a clear sense of boundaries, pay attention to hospitality.

The emotional relationship between relatives is naturally very close, but in this, the treasure mothers must know the clear boundaries, neither too much interference with others, nor too much interference by others. Avoid being too intimate and pay attention to the way of hospitality, which will naturally not make the husband's family picky.

After having children, Ma Bao should handle the relationship between herself and her in-laws harmoniously, because this will probably affect the children's cognition of their loved ones' feelings. Obviously, it is necessary for Mabao to maintain a harmonious family atmosphere in order to make their children happier.

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