What suggestions do you have for fathers to educate their children from an early age?

I am a primary school student who is about to enter the fifth grade. I think every parent hopes that their children will be lively and cheerful or have very good academic performance. From elementary school to middle school to high school or college. I know that as time goes by, parents are the most important role. Especially my father, who helps us with tutoring every day when we get home and is also responsible for the life at home.

Based on my personal experience, I will talk about the education and advice of fathers to their children.

1. Fathers must learn to be patient. There are many fathers who are very eager for their children to learn and force their children to study, leaving them with no time to play all day long. Some children can't help their father being so strict. Then he started crying, he must not do this, because his father would lose his mind. Fathers must learn to be patient and communicate with their children, so that their children's academic performance will get better and better.

2. Let children learn to be happy. Happiness is also a good way to learn. If a child grows up in a happy atmosphere, his interest in learning will increase. If a child is not happy, he will have no interest in learning. The happiness mentioned here is still the most important method of learning.

3. Learn to communicate with children. Many fathers either beat or scold their children when something happens, and fail to communicate in a timely manner. This not only easily hurts the child's self-esteem, but also creates a generation gap with the child, which may cause grudges in the future. I hope that all fathers can get along with us calmly and learn to communicate with their children when things happen, so that the relationship between father and daughter will get better and better.

Having a healthy, sunny, active and cheerful child is the biggest wish of every parent. I have been with my daughter all the way from learning to speak to becoming a beautiful girl and graduating from college. There are gains and losses in education. Now I will briefly talk about it, maybe it will give you some inspiration.

Nowadays, most of the children are only children, and many children are prone to develop the habit of being spoiled, selfish, and self-centered. Therefore, parents should educate their children from an early age on the virtue of sharing with others. In this way, it is easy to cultivate children's emotional intelligence, and when they grow up, they can develop the habit of cooperating with others, instead of being arrogant, autistic, aloof, and full of hostility.

The habit of sharing with others learned from childhood is also a moral character that must be possessed to integrate into society in the future. It is also the basis and prerequisite for getting along with others, and it is also conducive to the healthy and sustainable development of children in the future. Scholars who have won the Nobel Prize in Science recommend learning to share when recalling a person's most important qualities.

Happiness is an ability, and happiness is also a quality. Like other skills, happiness needs to be learned and cultivated.

When my child goes to school and comes home from school every day, I don’t ask her how she studied, but who did she help today? When sending your child to school, you are not telling her to study hard when she goes to school, but to tell her to help the teacher pick up books, wipe the blackboard, tidy up the desk, and help students on duty sweep the floor, mop tables, and move benches.

Learning to care about others shows a kind and friendly quality. When you grow up, you will find that a person's happiness is closely related to her kindness.

I cultivate children’s kindness by first guiding them in their attitudes and methods towards family members, such as eating and helping elders with chopsticks; raising small pets and teaching children to learn to care for small animals; and asking beggars to lend their money when they meet on the road. Lend a helping hand and do whatever you can to help those in need.

Developing a habit of exercise is the foundation and prerequisite for having a healthy body. Nowadays, many children are as fat as balls and move as slowly as old people at a young age. This is all because they eat too much and exercise too little. Therefore, it is necessary to let children love sports from an early age.

Exercise can not only exercise the body and prevent children from getting sick. In fact, it can also cultivate children's cheerful and healthy psychology and develop a positive spirit. It can also enhance their intellectual development and learn the character of cooperation with others.

In short, a child's growth cannot be separated from the careful cultivation of his parents. We are all ordinary people, and we do not expect our children to become successful. We just hope that they will be ordinary people and enjoy the happiness of ordinary people.

The biggest suggestion is, of course, to actively participate in your children’s education!

Regardless of methods, skills, and knowledge, if you can actively participate, you are already better than many dads.

Let me share my suggestions from the experience of a father who is involved in the whole process of parenting:

1. From before pregnancy, pay attention to parenting issues and give priority to nurturing. This is the premise of everything. If you are not even willing to quit smoking and drinking while preparing for pregnancy, your chances of being a good father are slim. Do good health work before pregnancy and lay the foundation for future children starting with sperm.

2. Do a good job in logistics and protection for your wife during pregnancy. Do not leave everything to the mother or mother-in-law. Only by participating from the beginning can you develop the corresponding abilities. On call, paying attention to the development of the fetus, and even more to the wife's emotions.

3. From the moment the child is born, take on the responsibility of being a father. When it's time to make milk powder, take the lead, and when it's time to change diapers, move forward bravely. Don't say you can't do it. It's the first time for everyone to be a parent, and it's also the first time for a mother to do these things. If you don't know how to do it, just learn. If you can't learn such a simple thing, what else can you do? Saying it’s not suitable or that you can’t learn is all an excuse and does not show a deep love for your child.

A colleague of mine said: Her husband can catch the baby’s poop with his hands and doesn’t mind if it’s dirty. Looking at the round poop of the child, I said that the poop of the child is very cute.

I have a friend. Once I went to his house to play, and the child pooped. My friend felt embarrassed because it smelled so bad. But her wife said: What's the smell? Why does my son's poop smell?

I think the above two people really love children! When you accept and love your children from the bottom of your heart, your stinky children will become cute! (Everyone who has been there knows that the poop of a baby does not smell that bad, unless it is sick.)

4. The first thing after get off work, give your child a hug. Put down your bag and pick up your dear little baby right away!

5. Interact with your children whenever you have time, put down your mobile phone, and play games with your children.

6. Don’t know what to do? Unconsciously? Feeling difficult? Then go study! Buy more parenting books, follow certain parenting public accounts, and read more articles, videos, movies and TV shows related to children. Don't keep scrolling on TikTok and waste your time on boring things. Learning to be a good dad is something to be proud of! Learn to learn, and everything will become smoother and simpler. Learn to learn, and all the difficulties that you can't do before will disappear. Raising children can be easy.

7. It’s better to study. Only by studying can you not be anxious, and can you not follow the trend and become exhausted. If you put in the spirit of getting into college, the rewards will definitely be no worse than getting into a prestigious university! That is something related to the life height of the next generation.

I have seen many articles saying that middle-aged people love to learn, and in the process of tutoring children, they can get several degrees. It is true. However, among the middle-aged people studying, there are more old mothers, and old fathers should also keep up.

Learning also includes cultivating personal charm. For example, it would be better to pay attention to intimacy and psychology.

8. When reading bedtime stories to children, don’t always leave it to mom, dad can do it better! The famous celebrities in the mom circle, such as Uncle Kai, Dad Ha, Dad Qian, etc., all of them are living storytellers. They all rely on persistence and practice! You may not be professional, but you can give your children the best reading habits. If you accompany them to read, you will be a big hero in their eyes!

Let’s just say this, I hope every child has a good and capable father!

Every parent hopes to have a healthy, lively and happy child, and as the child grows up over time, As parents, you must play a key role in guiding them in their growth. In fact, the father is a crucial role for a child from babbling to entering school and then growing up.

Many children who lack the care of their fathers will have some defects in their character. So what should fathers do to help their children grow up healthily? Let’s discuss it together~

1. Learn to communicate

Communication requires patience. Many fathers cannot communicate patiently. If their children make trouble, the father will Lose your mind.

This is absolutely undesirable. At this time, the father needs to calm down and don't reprimand the children loudly. If you reprimand them, the children will never listen to you. How can the father communicate with them? If you patiently communicate with your child from the beginning, the child will definitely listen and their emotions will slowly ease. This will also lay a good foundation for subsequent communication and the problem will be solved.

2. Patient tutoring

When a child reaches the age of 5 or 6, he or she will enter elementary school, and at this time, the child will start to do homework slowly, which makes many It is a headache for parents, because it is very difficult to educate children to learn. At this time, fathers must not reprimand children because they cannot do homework, because each child has different ability to comprehend learning. Some children may be faster, and some children may be slower to understand, but it does not mean that children who cannot solve problems are stupid children. They just lack a correct method, so fathers should prepare some simple methods in advance to teach their children to solve problems. , treat homework as a game and accompany your children to "pass the level" together.

3. Don’t deceive children

When children are young, the ones they trust most are their parents, and the father, as a symbol of authority, has a very high prestige in the eyes of the children. Yes, but this means that the father must not break his promise to his children, because this will cause the children to have a sense of distrust in the world and cause them to lose their sense of security. Therefore, fathers must keep their word to their children and try their best to do what they promise their children. This will also help their children develop good qualities of honesty and trustworthiness.

In short, a child’s growth cannot be separated from his father’s patient communication and careful cultivation. The father is the mountain that protects the child and the harbor that allows the child to escape the wind and rain. As a father, you must not be stingy with your love for your child. ~

"If the son fails to teach, it is the father's fault."

In matters of childbirth, the mother basically occupies a dominant position, but in matters of education, the father often plays a decisive role.

So, how can you be a competent father?

First of all, fathers should not only make money to support the family and create a comfortable family environment, but also provide adequate companionship to their children. It is said that companionship is the longest confession of love, and this sentence is also applicable to the parent-child relationship.

Companionship does not mean phone calls, videos or other high-tech, but actually squatting down and spending quality time with your children.

The lack of father's love often causes defects in children's character. Timid, inferior, and cowardly, "left-behind children" are the best proof.

Secondly, fathers should set an example, cultivate their own good character, and set a good example for their children.

Many people may have heard of the story of "Zengzi killing pigs".

During the Spring and Autumn Period, Zengzi, a native of Lu, was honest and did what he said. One day, his wife had to go out for something, and his son cried and wanted to go with him. The wife excused herself by going home to kill a pig for her son. After Zengzi came home and understood what had happened, he immediately started killing the pig and said to his wife, "The child is not sensible yet. He obeys the teachings of his parents. If you lie to him today, he will not believe you. You should do what you say to your child." , Otherwise, what qualifications do you have to educate your children?" The wife was extremely ashamed after hearing this.

Be consistent with your words and deeds, and behave with integrity. The ancients were like this, let alone us?

In fact, in addition to companionship and role modeling, fathers have a lot to do, such as understanding their children's growth and development, their psychological conditions, etc. However, everything remains the same. As long as you have love for your children and put it into action, you can be a good father.

1. It must be companionship, because I think companionship is the most important thing in education. Even if you buy him toys that he likes so much, he still hopes that you can play with him and pretend to be various Character, put those toys there. He feels so lonely playing alone, so what’s the point? No matter how busy you are, you should take time to spend more time with your children

2. In terms of words and deeds, many children are Imitate and learn. If you are not civilized, your children will follow suit. If you want to educate them well, you must first set an example and do your own thing first, and then ask your children to educate your children. If you have a sense of responsibility, your child will also have a sense of responsibility, because he will say that my father is like this, but your child who does not have a sense of responsibility will say that my father is like this.

3. I think there is still patience. There are many fathers who cannot be patient. They may collapse when their children make a fuss, and they will quickly ask others to help or reprimand their children loudly. In this way, the children will not be able to do anything in the future. If he doesn’t express it to you, how can you educate him? He will tell you what he thinks is good, but he will choose to hide what is bad because he is afraid of being scolded. If you are more patient with your child at the beginning, your child will listen and will gradually become more mature. If you stabilize your emotions, you will be able to communicate better next time and the problem will be solved, instead of the same thing next time, which will never teach your children this content, but will keep procrastinating. I feel like most dads don’t have that patience.

Just a personal opinion

In my memory, born in 1985, the image of my father is that of a mountain and his back. Therefore, dependence and strictness are the greatest educational influences of fathers. First of all, dad has to pay for food, drinks, and entertainment, including going out for fun and so on. The pine is the pine, but when it comes to setting rules, Dad is strict, even fierce. The naughty little monkeys really can't resist it, so they have to obey him. After the habit is formed, he will naturally develop a character as tough as his father, with good stress resistance and endurance. Father's love and father's image are so important!

If education is successful, everything will be successful. The key is education.

Study Chinese studies, learn traditional culture, such as the Three Character Classic, learn moral character first, and then learn culture. Start by learning how to be a human being. Traditional culture cannot be lost. Without noble moral character, what is the use of learning to be rich? Without the knowledge of being a human being, There is nothing to discuss about the bottom line