What words should people in the trough remember to make blessings come uninvited?

In this life, not all roads are smooth sailing, nor can you succeed with hard work. The ups and downs are normal, everyone will encounter setbacks, and everyone has a trough.

During this period, you will experience hardships, you will see people clearly, and you will know who is a true friend and who is a false friend. This difficult period, get through it, you will win, and everything will be fine.

Shelley once said: If winter comes, can spring be far behind? In the darkest moment of life, we should accumulate strength and strive for progress, so that it is possible to turn the tables against the wind and reverse the situation.

When people are in the trough, keep these three sentences in mind and you will be more and more blessed.

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Don't be anxious, don't be discouraged, and keep a normal heart.

Lin Qingxuan said: Always think of one or two, not eight or nine, and everything goes well. ?

In fact, a person's mentality is life. Everyone will encounter obstacles in his life. Pessimists will constantly deny themselves when they encounter setbacks and will never recover.

An optimistic person will make himself calm, calmly deal with it, turn negative factors into positive ones, and firmly seize opportunities.

In psychology, there is an effect called the Wild Horse Effect. There is a vampire bat on the African grassland. They feed on the blood of animals and often bite the legs of wild horses. Many wild horses were tortured to death.

Later, after research, zoologists found that they absorbed very little blood from wild horses, which was not enough to kill them. In fact, the real cause of death of wild horses is rage and running.

This tells us that a person's mentality is really important. At the bottom of life, we should keep a normal heart, don't be discouraged and don't be anxious. If you survive the difficult times, you win.

As Chai Jing said: Behind every smile, there is a gnashing soul. ? Only by smiling at suffering and calmly facing setbacks can we cross the trough and climb the peak of life.

When people are at the bottom, don't think about who to rely on, you should try to become strong.

Remember, when people are in the trough, don't bother anyone, and don't think about relying on anyone. In this life, no one is your safe haven forever, and the only person you can rely on is yourself.

In The Golden Powder Family, when the Kim family was in its heyday, many people were called Jin Yanxi Brothers. When the Kim family declined and Jin Yanxi was at the bottom of his life, he asked his friends to get an official position, but they didn't really help him, just gave him perfunctory and indifference.

As the saying goes, it is better to rely on yourself than to ask for help. People can see through people's hearts best when they are in a low position. At this time, don't disturb anyone, but keep silent. You should work hard silently, do your best slowly, and then give everyone a surprise.

There is a saying:? The sea of life is so long. When you are at a low point, you don't shout, grow inward, live a peaceful life and accumulate strength. ? Only by striving to become stronger can we not be looked down upon and live the life we want.

When people are at the bottom, they should be resilient. You should be strong, step up, keep learning, and strive to be excellent. One day, you will turn over against the wind and surprise everyone.

Learn to be grateful and cherish those who have been with you.

When people are in the trough, they should restrain their negative emotions, have a grateful heart, and remember those who have helped you.

Some people live a comfortable life and enjoy the joy of success. When life reaches a low point, they can't accept the reality, are in anxiety all day, can't control their emotions, and even lose their temper with people who care about themselves.

You know, at the bottom of your life, you won't leave, and the people around you are the people who care about you the most.

You should always control your emotions, adjust your state to the best mode, don't worry or worry, cherish the people who accompany you when you are in the trough and give them more care and warmth.

When your world is full of sunshine, when you learn to be grateful and have the help of noble people, you will definitely get through the trough, and the better.

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Tagore once said: Only through the tempering of hell can we forge the power to create heaven. ?

There are good times and bad times in a person's life. When life is at a low ebb, only after suffering can we embrace the sunshine.

When people are at the bottom, they should accumulate strength and move forward in a down-to-earth manner. Sooner or later, you will