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Grandparents have paid a lot for taking care of the baby. How difficult is it to take care of the baby with the elders?

First, why are many old people taking care of their children in society now? Nowadays, people's life is very fast. Although the living standard has been greatly improved, it has been bought with people's hard work. Therefore, many young people are constantly striving to realize their life value and improve their living standards, resulting in little time for them to spend with their families. Some young people have to ask their parents to help take care of their children after they have children. Because they really don't have time to pick up and take care of their children, this arduous task often falls on the elderly. Many old people have nothing to do after retirement, and they are willing to help their children take care of their children and let them go to work with peace of mind. Old people also enjoy their time with their children. Therefore, there are many families in society now where the old take care of their children and the young go out to earn money to support their families.

2. What's wrong with old people taking care of children? If the elderly take care of the children, it can actually cultivate the feelings between the elderly and the children, and also let the children form a good habit of respecting the elderly and loving the young from an early age. But the bad thing is that the elderly often take care of the children with traditional concepts, which has a certain adverse impact on the growth of the children, because the society is developing rapidly now, and children must accept new knowledge and new educational models if they want to integrate into the society quickly in the future. The elderly can only take care of their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and they are unable to cope with their studies in all aspects. Therefore, the children brought by the elderly often do not study well, and because the elderly spoil their children very much, it is inevitable to develop some bad habits for their children, which is also a very headache for many parents.

Third, will there be any contradiction in taking care of children with the elderly? If young people and old people take care of their children together, there will be some contradictions to some extent, because the old people and young people have completely different concepts, as well as their age and environment. So there must be some differences in the way they treat their children, and young people don't want old people to spoil their children. In this way, if the elderly and young people take care of the children together, there will be contradictions, leading to stiff family relations. Therefore, if parents have the conditions and ability, they should try their best to take care of their children. After all, the child is his own. If there is really no way to give the child to the elderly, then the elderly had better communicate in advance and don't let the elderly spoil the child too much. After all, doting on children is very harmful to children. After the conflict arises, we must communicate reasonably to solve it, so that the relationship between families will not become rigid because of taking care of children.