How to speak without being annoying?

Everyone wants to be praised and praised by others and satisfy a little vanity in his heart, but only by not being annoying can he be favored by others. How to chat without being annoying?

1. Watch your language. When talking and communicating with others, you should think about everything you say. Don't feel that you haven't hurt each other. What you should consider is whether others can accept it, not what you think. Don't say anything that hurts others' self-esteem.

2. Pay attention to your behavior. Be upright and don't speak ill of others behind their backs. If you are dissatisfied with other people's behavior, you can put forward some suggestions and opinions in front of others in another way, but don't be a villain. People's actions before and after should be consistent.

Be honest with your friends. Since you want to make friends, let your friends feel sincere, don't be insincere, treat each other honestly and confide in each other. After a long time, others will naturally understand you and trust yourself more than others.

4. Be more helpful. You can help your friends when you see them in trouble. If you can't help yourself, don't throw stones at others. As long as you have a sincere heart to accompany you and tide over the difficulties with your friends, your company will also make your friends feel happy.

How to chat without being annoying

Chatting won't make people hate you. Method 1

1. Don't always talk. I remember when I was a child, my mother always scolded me: don't interrupt when adults are talking. When I was a child, I was fearless, so there was nothing I didn't understand. I want to say a few words to express my sense of existence, so I have been trained. Of course, from the beginning, after wandering around alone, I suffered a lot, and gradually learned how to talk to people appropriately, and then I realized that a woman who is always scrambling to talk is really annoying. No matter who it is, no matter what the occasion, this is not the practice of smart women, but the practice of stupid women.

Listen carefully, be respected by others and like talking to you, so you should listen carefully to others. When others are talking to you, as long as they are not malicious or bullying you or teasing you with words, you should listen carefully and make your response in time, which will let the other party know that you respect ta and that you are listening carefully. Only in this way can the other party give you corresponding respect, and will not dislike or even like to communicate with you.

Pay attention to the volume of your speech. There is a female neighbor in my hometown. Her voice was heard by others and thought it was a quarrel. I remember being locked up at my mother's house when I gave birth. My neighbor came to see me and the children. Everyone who entered the door was silent, except the neighbor who shouted as soon as he entered the door. Parents love me and my children, fearing that their rest will be affected. There was no way out, so they had to drag her into the street to talk in the winter. As a woman, no matter where you are or who you talk to, you don't need mosquitoes to hum and pretend to be weak, but don't shout so loudly that no one can stand it.

4. Don't be too enthusiastic. A woman who is indifferent to people is not liked, and a woman who is too enthusiastic is really awkward. For example, Zeng, a female colleague, is really warm-hearted When talking to her, all your difficulties are covered up by her, and what she can do for you is almost zero. And she also has a habit of holding your hand, or having some physical contact with you, patting your shoulder, hand or other positions from time to time. I remember that once the unit came to lead, and the unit leader introduced us to the superior, she rushed up and patted others on the arm, talking and laughing, which made the leader very embarrassed. Enthusiasm is good, but it should be divided into different occasions.

Chatting won't make people hate you. Method 2

1. Don't speak too strongly, whether online or in reality, whether chatting with relatives or between friends and colleagues. Everything you said is right, and your proposal will be the best and correct. If others have objections, then you should argue with others until you feel that others are under pressure. I can only say that if you chat like this, almost everyone will resent it, and no one will treat you as a friend, no matter how correct your point of view is. Chatting is not a debate, it requires mutual happiness and relaxation, not blushing.

Don't sprinkle salt on other people's wounds. This is a kind of person that Bian Xiao hates very much. In this case, Bian Xiao will certainly stay away. This kind of person, no matter who the other person is, no matter what happens to him, can speak freely if he can hurt the other person and beat him, as long as he shows his uniqueness and stimulates the other person. Such people will never have true bosom friends, and will be despised and spurned by the collective in a group. Therefore, if you want not to be rejected by others, you must learn to chat with others and remember not to sprinkle salt on other people's wounds. No matter how good your relationship is, it hurts.

3. Don't be stubborn. Bian Xiao once met a woman in a QQ group. It is said that she married well. Once in a discussion about money and love, she disagreed with other netizens. Others say that money is very important, but it is not everything, and you can't buy love, but she says that there is no so-called love without money, and love is something that the poor comfort each other. Although each has its own reasons, after all, there are different opinions, and when it comes to talking, the smell of gunpowder comes out. The owner of the group is a good man, making a moderate summary and thinking about things. Everyone else laughed and talked about the discussion. It doesn't matter. After the discussion, the feelings are still there. But she persisted, and all afternoon, she was having her own constant debate. The result is that from then on, as long as she speaks, no one will pay attention to her, and sometimes when she speaks, she will be besieged by many people. You see, this is the result of stubborn chat.

4. Don't say those bad words. Bian Xiao doesn't know why. Many people regard swearing as a fashion, especially some little girls and boys, and some elderly men. It seems that if you can't swear, you can't open your mouth. Even in some communities on the internet, whoever speaks dirty words skillfully wins, and whoever speaks simple and clean will be regarded as old-fashioned by people who are cursed by love. I'm wondering how being clean can become old-fashioned in many communities, or in reality, such swearing people are surrounded by such swearing people. As long as they end their lives, there is almost no disgust.