The poor survived.

If you are poor, you will be immune, and if you are rich, you will help the world.

From Mencius, "Special Chapter and Sentence Break"

? It means "manage your own moral cultivation when you are frustrated, and try your best to benefit everyone in the world when you succeed." This sentence (from Baidu Encyclopedia) is my favorite sentence in recent years, and it is also my own principle of dealing with people. Obviously, in my present situation, I can only say that I have done the first sentence, and I will not look at the latter sentence for the time being. Mainly talk about "poverty is immune."

What is "poverty"? Not just when I'm frustrated. You can literally understand my current economic situation, or my personal knowledge reserve, all kinds of things I can talk about and show, that is, my ability. That is, when I am far from satisfied with my present achievements, that is, my "poverty". I believe that everyone is in a state of "poverty" most of the time, because most people are not satisfied with their present situation, and people will be in a state of continuous learning all their lives, so "poverty" is a normal state and a state that needs sufficient at any time.

But this time, I'm not talking about how to study hard to get rid of the "poor" state. It is a long-term accumulation. When I have enough things in my mind to tell others and give them experience and help, I can naturally achieve the goal of "helping the world". What I mainly want to say is "one person", not "meddling". But many times, I look at the problem from my own point of view.

I believe that many times, whether it is work, study or even playing games, as long as there is a mistake, I will hear others say, "Ah, if he is anything, it is because someone has made a mistake." To shirk one's responsibilities. It seems that I can do it as long as he doesn't make mistakes, so it's not my fault. I think it is childish and ridiculous to say this most of the time. Let's not talk about the significance of such words for the time being. The mistake has already happened. Is it really nothing to do with yourself? If you want to escape the relationship in this way, such an idea seems rather clumsy to me. What you need to do to be "immune" is to think about yourself first if there are any mistakes. Is it because I didn't do well? Is it because I didn't consider this situation before? The first thing that comes to mind is not shirking responsibility, but striving for self-improvement. Passing the buck is an ideological worm. This kind of thinking will make you form a habit. When you make a mistake, you always feel that you have no problem, which is caused by external factors. Maybe you can satisfy yourself. You are still the same, perfect and powerful, but you are only fooling yourself. This makes me extremely disgusted, but I seldom comment on this kind of behavior, but I hate it in my heart. Why? This leads to what I will say later.

"Immunization" is more important. My heart is like a mirror but I don't speak. The general idea is to keep self-observation and thinking about things while reducing unnecessary arguments with others. I think this is something to learn when growing up. Reducing unnecessary arguments with others can reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles. It is a waste to spend time stumbling with others. It is better to face a wall and think for yourself. Everyone's thoughts are accumulated through long-term social experience, and most of them are different, so it is normal for you and I to have different views on things. What needs to be done? Sometimes you can listen and learn, and sometimes you can go in one ear and out the other. When you think his opinion is the best, how many grades are higher than you don't know, then what are you waiting for? Listen quietly, understand quietly, and learn quietly. Of course, it's not all about taking the truth, losing yourself and giving up thinking. All my words are based on your constant thinking. If you give up thinking, it's useless to talk more. Get back to the point and reduce unnecessary arguments with people, when you think what he said is totally nonsense and unacceptable. Everyone has different ideas and different levels. The last thing you need is that he agrees with you. It's too difficult to change a person's mind. Instead of arguing with him, why not "be alone" We may not be able to change the world or others, but we can always change ourselves.

When someone laughs at your mistakes and failures, be alone.

When someone disagrees with your point of view and his point of view is totally nonsense, there is no need to argue. What you have to do is not to change others, but to be independent.

When you are different from others in your pursuit and are questioned, keep thinking and remain independent.

Keep thinking, keep yourself, and make continuous progress on the road of independence. Maybe one day, you can confidently preach and dispel doubts for others and "help the world".

This article contains a lot of my subjective wishes. I beg to differ. Please forgive me if I have offended you ~)