I feel that my husband is very stingy. Did I do something wrong?

Judging from your statement, I think the responsibility for this matter lies mainly with you. Whether it is right or wrong, your values are very incorrect.

Many people easily fall into a misunderstanding, that is, my life before marriage is very good, but my living standard after marriage has decreased. It must be my husband's fault. But this is not the case. If the man you marry is rich, but he won't spend money for you, then he must be wrong. But if the person you marry doesn't have much money, I hope you spend less, which I think is understandable.

In response to your question, I think you need to know three questions:

First of all, you are married. Now that you are married, you have the right to contribute to your life with your husband. From your description, your husband did his part well, but you didn't. To put it bluntly, your mind is still at the stage of making money and spending it yourself before marriage, and you don't consider your husband at all.

Although spending all your salary every month will not affect your life at present, there will always be children in the future and there is still a lot of money to invest. If you don't save some money now, how will you support your children in the future?

Secondly, the money that should be spent should be spent, and the money that should not be spent should be saved. Usually buy clothes and cosmetics, if it is a necessity, it is necessary to buy them. But there is no need to spend a lot of money to recharge for playing games. Because you are not very rich, you should plan your own money.

Besides, I don't think it's really necessary to spend money on playing games. If it is purely for relaxation and entertainment, you might as well take the money from the recharge game to take a short trip with your husband, which will not only enhance your feelings, but also enrich your life.

Finally, marriage cannot be managed and maintained by one person. Now that you have decided to marry him, you should change yourself appropriately.