How to chat to find a topic (1 1 a topic that anyone can talk about)

After entering the workplace, I was surprised to find that when meeting customers in business and attending various parties, I often need to talk to people who have little communication and little interest.

How to choose the topic of conversation at this time? Let me explain it to you. Maybe you will casually talk about these topics in your daily conversation, and we will systematically summarize these topics.

To put it bluntly, most of these conversations have no connotation, but talking more can gradually enhance mutual understanding, thus making the relationship between the two sides closer.

Key point: to put it bluntly, it is "food, clothing, housing and transportation"!

First climate

Topics about climate and four seasons.

It's getting hot/cold and so on. With the talk about the weather, some more natural and harmless topics are gradually introduced. This method is very simple and convenient.

Second hobby

Topics about hobbies.

If the other person is male, you can talk about professional baseball and other sports. If the other person is a woman, you can talk about beauty or health. But because most people don't know each other's hobbies when they meet for the first time, this topic is actually difficult to use.

Third news

Topics about news and current affairs.

It is best to choose a more positive topic, such as the news of Prince William's wedding in England and so on.

Fourth tourism

The topic of travel.

You can tell each other where you have been recently, or ask them if they have been anywhere.

You can also recommend a place to each other, or ask each other what they think of a place.

We can talk about each other's hometown and so on, which will make the topic wider.

The fifth kind of weather

About the weather.

It's raining and windy, and the weather forecast says … Wait, this is a very easy topic to talk about.

Sixth family

Topics about children, parents, etc.

Especially when the other person is old, when you ask him questions about children, most of them will gladly answer them. Of course, maybe you are not married and have no children. In this case, it depends on whether you talk about this topic or not.

Seventh health

You can talk to each other about your health and wellness, recent weight loss exercises, etc. , can lead to the discussion of each other's daily life, more useful.

The eighth work

Even if it has little to do with each other's work, you can introduce your work to each other. However, if the other person doesn't know you, it seems a bit inappropriate to start talking about your company and products at once.

The ninth dress

If it is the season change, you can say something like "I need to wear a coat recently"/"I don't need to wear a coat", or you can praise each other's clothing collocation and accessories.

The tenth diet

You can talk about the meal you have just eaten, or the vegetables at present, or the special things or delicious food you have eaten recently. This is an easy topic to talk about.

Eleventh residence

You can ask each other where they live, or you can tell them where you live.

Knowing the other person's residence can lead to more topics, but sometimes you will be surprised because you are not familiar with the other person's residence, which may also cause the other person to be in a bad mood.