Real maturity begins with bowing your head.

When we were young, we had many dreams and climbed hard for that unreachable goal.

However, with the growth of age, you will find that the ideal is often full, but the reality is too skinny, and the gap between ideal and reality is too big, which often makes people breathless.

Teacher Mu Xin said that many people feel lost, which runs counter to their boyhood wishes.

However, with the growth of age, everyone is constantly compromising life, which is normal. After all, not everything will revolve around your thoughts. You should learn to adapt to everything around you.

The change of mentality, bending over for life, although seemingly weak, is actually a truly mature performance.

Because none of us can escape from reality. You know, a person's real maturity begins with meeting these people and bowing their heads.

Bow to the ideal

Once upon a time, those of us who were not full of blood thought that we could shake the earth by giving ourselves a lever. Everyone feels that he is indispensable and thinks that the world can't function normally without himself.

However, when I grow up, I find that this is not the case at all.

Whether you are good or not, whether you exist or not, will basically not affect anyone. There is no one in this world, the sun can still rise, and the earth is still running freely.

The ideal is good after all, but without the support of reality, it will only make people more unrealistic and unable to grasp everything in front of them.

Therefore, many people feel that they were once full of blood on campus and became cautious because they stepped into society. This is actually a lesson from falling down again and again.

As adults, we can no longer pursue ourselves as casually as we did when we were teenagers. After all, doing what should be done at every age is recognized by most people.

Although it seems a little timid, I have to admit that this is life and this is reality.

Learning to bow to the ideal does not mean giving up all dreams, but being more grounded. Do the things in front of you first, and accumulate precipitation bit by bit, so that you can get closer to your dreams.

Akiko Nogi said, I may not be able to live the life I want right away, but a little change is enough to give me the courage to continue living.

It is a sign of maturity and a wise choice for a person to know how to bow his head in time, bend over for five buckets of rice and integrate into society.

Bow face to face

A naughty boy in middle school suddenly worked hard in his second year of high school. Later, when chatting together, he said that the school teacher called his father over and scolded him.

Through the window of the teacher's office, he found that his middle-aged father had his own company with one or two hundred employees, but because the child had no dignity in front of the teacher, he always apologized with a smiling face.

At that moment, he suddenly felt that he was worthless and caused so much trouble to his parents. It was at that time that he decided to turn over a new leaf.

Everyone in the world has his own face. When he was young, he felt that face was a great thing, and he could not do anything without the word "face".

However, after surviving, I found that face is the least worth mentioning in front of life.

The more a person cares about the so-called face, the harder he lives. Putting down face is the greatest dignity.

Because your life is bad, no one will give up happiness; If you don't have money, the pie won't fall from the sky for you ... life is your own, as long as you don't have to face the lining, you will still suffer.

Put down your face and pursue what you want in a down-to-earth manner, whether it is your beloved person or rich material, as long as it is earned aboveboard, it is admirable.

Life is really hard, we have to take care of ourselves.

You can bow to your face, admit your shortcomings, study hard and take the initiative, and you can really earn the life you want for yourself.

Bow to the people around you

When we were young, we pursued ourselves, never took our parents' suggestions seriously, and felt that our decision was the most correct. It was not until we hit a wall that we remembered that our parents were very kind to us.

Young people are passionate and impulsive, and people often have to suffer a little to understand other people's experiences. However, when you reach a certain age, you should understand that not everything has room for repentance.

Especially when parents are old, they are still bossing around like they were when they were children, hurting their feelings. When you realize your mistake, you may have no chance to make it up.

There is no regret medicine to sell in the world. Learning to bow to the people around you is a sign of a person's true maturity.

When I grew up and experienced hardships, I knew that the talents around me were the most worthy of my treasure.

Parents who inculcate, lovers who care about each other, relatives who share joys and sorrows, and friends who think of you are all worthy of your bow.

As life goes further and further, you will find that they have been integrated into your life and become a part of you. The suggestion is bad, but it is good for action. I believe their rambling is an expression of love.

If it's not because I care about you, why should I make you unhappy?

Therefore, cherish the love of people around you and learn to show weakness and bow your head. This is the wisdom of life and a praiseworthy practice.

As the saying goes, only by bowing your head can you stand out.

Real mature people don't run amok, but rationally make life choices and embrace a broader life.

Wang Shuo said, I used to think that the days were endless and the future was different. Now I lie in my future. I haven't found any real change in myself. The only difference is that I don't intend to achieve it myself.

Without exception, all passions will fade away and return to dullness. This is a reality that everyone should accept.

When you reach a certain age, you must learn to live in peace with everything around you.

I don't know how to bow my head, just competing with myself. Life is short. Only by learning to let go can you liberate yourself.

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