What's it like to chase a man and a woman?

In fact, it is not uncommon for women to chase men in reality. Both men and women have the right to pursue the feelings they want, and their courage and persistence should also be understood and respected, so it is not a shameful thing for women to pursue men, and there is no need to feel embarrassed and embarrassed about it. People in love may fall in love with each other at once, or they may experience hardships and hardships, and the process of reaching the other side of victory is not the same. As long as you have a clear goal in mind, you can bravely express your feelings.

However, the success of love depends not only on the blending of each other's hearts, but also on whether the right person is chosen. But also pay attention to many details and problems in the process of pursuit. We can't just surround that person with enthusiasm and persistence. We should understand that there are some disadvantages in pursuing women and men too much.

Men naturally like challenges. Generally, women who prefer to spend their thoughts and energy to pursue them will cherish them more, while women who get them easily without any investment will look down on them rather than cherish them. Judging from public opinion, it is not natural for women to chase men, which easily leads to psychological imbalance of women. Not to mention women chasing men, if men chase women very hard and obedient, it will also lead to the arrogance of women. In this case, the chased party often doesn't cherish this feeling. Therefore, the key question is not who pursues whom, but what kind of mentality and way to deal with feelings.

A woman can bravely pursue the man she likes, but if she finds it unworthy, she has the right to take it back at any time. Men don't accept your likes, but you respect him; When a man accepts your love, he begins to fall in love on an equal footing. Instead of taking the other person's acceptance of himself as a gift, he will be cautious about the man from now on, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and even give up his self-esteem completely in order to maintain this relationship. If you really do this, it is equivalent to telling men that they have no status and no weight. Smart women don't go around men all day, but quickly let men know their bottom line, and at the same time show their independence and Excellence, so that men can value and cherish themselves.